My husband wants a trial separation.

[TexasTravel]

Hmmmm....ok..this is just a suggestion....try telling him "thank you" for all the things he does or has done that you really appreciated and never said thank you for.



Sounds like a great idea. Despite what is depicted in our US media, guys get their feelings hurt also. Guys experience loneliness, broken heart, depression, feeling neglected, etc. just like ladies do only men are not allowed to say it because of the stereotypes. I know I have felt the same way before. Both people need to be treated on an equal level ...... always. Guys are always the ones who are supposed to be tough, guys need to be told they are loved and valued just as much as a lady. Please tell him so.

Good luck. I'll be praying for you.

[willardrat]

I am truly sorry to hear of your situation. I guess the best thing to do here is simply sit and wait what happens. If you try to impose yourself to your husband, then it would obviously alienate him even more, so trying to reach him is out of the question. Whatever he's trying to pull off or whatever he's hiding will remain unknown for now until he actually begins to talk to you. When that will happen, I don't know.

Consult your counselor regarding this matter as he will provide you with more information and advice on how to deal with your husband in the best way possible. However, if worse comes to worse and your husband pushes for divorce, then I suggest you prepare yourself by reading some free divorce advice for women and make the best of your situation.

[douglas]

this is an old thread.

btw .. in case it's of any use to anyone. i almost walked out on my family during one of my keppra rage episodes. i remember i was thinking my marriage was empty and no one loved each other and the only reason anyone with with anyone is because of the kids and everything was a big waste of time.

luckily, it didnt go through all the way and now looking back i am convinced that it was the keppra. i am tellin you, the meds totally mess with your mind. watch out...!

[Bernard]

douglas - vitamin B6 supplements can help curb the kepprage.

[douglas]

thanks. yeah, i started taking 250mg b6 and 250mg b12's dailiy. seems like it might be helping. though ,might also be that my body is getting used to keppra.