Hi there,
Has anyone experienced this before?
My husband has been acting so strange since he started having seizures four months ago. In particular, he is acting strange towards me. Like everything I say and do gets him angry and I find his emotions are all over the place.
Here's an example. Mike has had 3 nocturnal seizures between 1am and 2am. The other day on the way to the neurologist's appt. I joked around about how I should wake him up between 1 and 2 and then maybe he'd never have another seizure. Mike said 'Yeah, maybe I should just go to bed at 2:00am.' We even joked with the neurologist about this. Meanwhile, Mike has always gone to bed at 10:00pm his whole life.
Anyhow, we get home that night and Mike goes into a rage of yelling and screaming at me. This behavior has been going on for a few months - it's like everything I say or do makes him angry. And last night he went to bed at 2:00am. Now that's hard on me as I can hear the TV going from the other room and I can't sleep. So tonight I asked him if he was going to bed at 2:00 am again and he said 'Yes, because it will stop your bitching.' Sheesh - I have no idea whatsoever what that even means!!!!!!!!! I asked him for an explanation and he didn't respond so I said 'I don't know what you mean by that. Yesterday we were joking but I have never bitched even once about your seizures.' Then he said 'And you don't want me taking saunas'. Mike takes an infra red sauna every night and when he was in the hospital he had low sodium levels and I asked the doctor if he should be taking a sauna everynight. So basically Mike's going to bed at 2:00am to stop my bitching and he's stop taking saunas for the same reason.
I don't get this at all. I love him and will do anything to help him and he's not even making sense. I don't even know what's going on.
Any suggestions?
Sue
Has anyone experienced this before?
My husband has been acting so strange since he started having seizures four months ago. In particular, he is acting strange towards me. Like everything I say and do gets him angry and I find his emotions are all over the place.
Here's an example. Mike has had 3 nocturnal seizures between 1am and 2am. The other day on the way to the neurologist's appt. I joked around about how I should wake him up between 1 and 2 and then maybe he'd never have another seizure. Mike said 'Yeah, maybe I should just go to bed at 2:00am.' We even joked with the neurologist about this. Meanwhile, Mike has always gone to bed at 10:00pm his whole life.
Anyhow, we get home that night and Mike goes into a rage of yelling and screaming at me. This behavior has been going on for a few months - it's like everything I say or do makes him angry. And last night he went to bed at 2:00am. Now that's hard on me as I can hear the TV going from the other room and I can't sleep. So tonight I asked him if he was going to bed at 2:00 am again and he said 'Yes, because it will stop your bitching.' Sheesh - I have no idea whatsoever what that even means!!!!!!!!! I asked him for an explanation and he didn't respond so I said 'I don't know what you mean by that. Yesterday we were joking but I have never bitched even once about your seizures.' Then he said 'And you don't want me taking saunas'. Mike takes an infra red sauna every night and when he was in the hospital he had low sodium levels and I asked the doctor if he should be taking a sauna everynight. So basically Mike's going to bed at 2:00am to stop my bitching and he's stop taking saunas for the same reason.
I don't get this at all. I love him and will do anything to help him and he's not even making sense. I don't even know what's going on.
Any suggestions?
Sue