Confused.

[hawke86]

I thought natilie wanted to help. She does nothing. Why does she say she want's to help and does nothing. I guess she just wanted to use everyone so she could write her college paper.

[RobinN]

I disagree. She is new and is in school. She is busy writing a paper, and I bet when she is done she will be back to share with us what she has found. I do understand your frustration. Occasionally we have members that don't have much to give . That happens some times Hawke. We try not to judge them, because we don't always know what they have going on in their world.

Are you interested in learning more about memory Hawke?

[natalie]

Hawke,

Because I am new here, there are soooo many threads to read through. I am having a bit of a difficult time learning the format of this forum, but I really like this forum a lot.

I notice that I posted my first thread in one location and it was moved somewhere else...it is a lot to learn...it will take some time for me.

I do understand how you could feel that I just came here to use you for information, but I assure you...I want to be a giving member of the forum as well. I just have to ease into though...

I sent you a PM, Hawke...but publically, I would like to say I am sorry for not replying and communicating with you a little faster. I will try to communicate with you better in the future...

Did you have a good day today? Is it hot where you are right now already? We had a pretty nice day here...but it won't be long before it gets really hot!

Hey...thanks again Hawke86 for helping me with my paper. I will let you know how I did on it as soon as I hear back from my professor.

Sincerely,

Natalie

[Bernard]

It's entirely voluntary on your part should you choose to respond to natalie's research paper post.

No one here is under any obligation to help anyone else. It's nice that many do though.

I would like to say that it's not very constructive to call people out like this (the Golden Rule applies). Many new members need time to get their bearings in navigating this site and becoming comfortable enough to open up and share their personal experiences or knowledge.

If you have a grievance with another member, depending upon the situation and nature of it, it's best to either send a PM to a moderator or the member in question and handle it privately.