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Hey everyone!
So in the past year and a half, I've been going through so much problems (increased seizures, horrible side effects, etc) to the point I had to take a year and a half off from college.
Last year, I lived with a group of girls, who I met through my sister, and we were all really close (one of the girls I've even known since high school) and they saw how bad I went through things, but still kind of kept their distance (my boyfriend who lived with his roommates would come over everyday to take care of me even if all my roommates were there). It's not that there was any drama, we got along great, and I never thought it was because they were squeamish with health related things because one is a nursing student, one is a social work major, and the other is a bio major. We used to have dinner parties every week with a small group of friends and just hang out- nothing super crazy!
Now this year, my boyfriend and I lived together and everyone else pretty much lives in separate houses but still very close (one is even our neighbor) and this year, I am never invited to hang outs. The only ones I am invited to are the ones that my sister plans (since I met them through her) and I always find out about parties after the fact from my sister. On top of that, my health continues to be in pretty bad shape and the last time anyone asked me how I was doing (at one of my sister's parties) was 2 months ago. I lived with these girls for a year and thought we were really close. My sister says that they ask her how I am doing but I haven't even gotten a text, call or anything from one of them. My sister is telling me that I should ask them how they are doing but I think it's weird to ask someone how they are doing just to fish and get them to ask me about my health (which because seeing my sister, they know is still bad). I mean, I have friends who live 2 and a half hours away and all across the country who ask once a week!
Sorry didn't mean to ramble there! Or sound like I'm a pathetic high school girl. It just hurts feeling ostricized and since this is the first time in my life my health has really gotten bad, I've never experienced this before. I would just like some advice: am I overreacting? What should I do in this kind of situation? There's supposed to be a Christmas party this weekend with all of them and my sister is now guilt tripping me because I really don't want to go. I've tried to organize hang out days before, but plans always fell through but always seem to come together with everyone else. Again, I am so sorry about the novel!
So in the past year and a half, I've been going through so much problems (increased seizures, horrible side effects, etc) to the point I had to take a year and a half off from college.
Last year, I lived with a group of girls, who I met through my sister, and we were all really close (one of the girls I've even known since high school) and they saw how bad I went through things, but still kind of kept their distance (my boyfriend who lived with his roommates would come over everyday to take care of me even if all my roommates were there). It's not that there was any drama, we got along great, and I never thought it was because they were squeamish with health related things because one is a nursing student, one is a social work major, and the other is a bio major. We used to have dinner parties every week with a small group of friends and just hang out- nothing super crazy!
Now this year, my boyfriend and I lived together and everyone else pretty much lives in separate houses but still very close (one is even our neighbor) and this year, I am never invited to hang outs. The only ones I am invited to are the ones that my sister plans (since I met them through her) and I always find out about parties after the fact from my sister. On top of that, my health continues to be in pretty bad shape and the last time anyone asked me how I was doing (at one of my sister's parties) was 2 months ago. I lived with these girls for a year and thought we were really close. My sister says that they ask her how I am doing but I haven't even gotten a text, call or anything from one of them. My sister is telling me that I should ask them how they are doing but I think it's weird to ask someone how they are doing just to fish and get them to ask me about my health (which because seeing my sister, they know is still bad). I mean, I have friends who live 2 and a half hours away and all across the country who ask once a week!
Sorry didn't mean to ramble there! Or sound like I'm a pathetic high school girl. It just hurts feeling ostricized and since this is the first time in my life my health has really gotten bad, I've never experienced this before. I would just like some advice: am I overreacting? What should I do in this kind of situation? There's supposed to be a Christmas party this weekend with all of them and my sister is now guilt tripping me because I really don't want to go. I've tried to organize hang out days before, but plans always fell through but always seem to come together with everyone else. Again, I am so sorry about the novel!
