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My daughter is in her junior year of college, majoring in physics. During the last school year she noticed she was having some difficulty concentrating, we think due to lamotrigine, but also when she has simple partials and auras in class. She mentioned it to a couple professors, and her advisor suggested she apply for disability services, which would give her extended testing time and other accommodations. Hesitant because she doesn't want to think of herself as disabled, or have other students think she gets special treatment, she went ahead and had her doctor fill out the paperwork while she was in the hospital for her video EEG.
I think that is the reason why the doctor, on her last day at the hospital, gave her a little lecture about going on with life even though the diagnosis of epilepsy was confirmed. He kept saying she needs to fulfill her responsibilities, there are no excuses, she needs to work, take charge of life, and not fall back on her parents. Of course she knows all that, and has never used epilepsy as an excuse before, so she was a bit taken aback by the doctor's words. I told her I didn't think he was accusing her and meant well by what he was saying.
She's going to go ahead and turn in her disability paperwork to the college. Has anyone here done that, and do you think it's a good idea?
I think that is the reason why the doctor, on her last day at the hospital, gave her a little lecture about going on with life even though the diagnosis of epilepsy was confirmed. He kept saying she needs to fulfill her responsibilities, there are no excuses, she needs to work, take charge of life, and not fall back on her parents. Of course she knows all that, and has never used epilepsy as an excuse before, so she was a bit taken aback by the doctor's words. I told her I didn't think he was accusing her and meant well by what he was saying.
She's going to go ahead and turn in her disability paperwork to the college. Has anyone here done that, and do you think it's a good idea?