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I have reached the point with Kater that daily she takes all I have to get through the time she is home. I love her to death, but can't stand her behavior anymore.
If I (or anyone for that matter) asks/tells her to do something she will yell No at the top of her lungs and go back to what she was doing before. I often have to tell her to be just stop talking because she is like living with a defense attorney. She would plead with you about the shade of green that the grass is, just for the sake of arguing.
If anything goes wrong with say her video game it's anyone elses fault but her own even if that person is 10 feet away from her not even looking at the game. She has tripped and fallen over her backpack that she left in the middle of the room, stood up yelled at Ty and slapped him cuz he made her trip. She wil not play with the other kids at school unless they follow her rules and listen to what she wants them to. Why the kids put up with her I am not sure, and I am sure that soon that will end when they realize they don't have to be friends with her.
If you ask her to be quiet cause her brother is sleeping, she will wait until you are busy, run up and scream in his ear just to be defiant, and then when you correct her she will look like she had no clue what she did wasn't okay.
Took her to the Ped. yesterday, for her 8 yr. check up. It was the Dr. holding her legs, I had the arms and mouth (so that in case she bit it was me and not the Dr.)
just to look in her ears and mouth. It was so hard to control her as she is getting so strong. The Dr. asked "You do this every day?" Yeah, in one way or another. It's constant. You ask her to grab her hairbrush that it 3 feet away and she will turn and do something completely different than what she should. According to the neuropsych testing that was done last year (what they could do, due to miss attitude not cooperating) said that she is of "low average intelligence"
I just don't know if this is a behavior choice that she is making, behavior choices that she has little to no control over, or what. I don't even know where to go from here.
If I (or anyone for that matter) asks/tells her to do something she will yell No at the top of her lungs and go back to what she was doing before. I often have to tell her to be just stop talking because she is like living with a defense attorney. She would plead with you about the shade of green that the grass is, just for the sake of arguing.
If anything goes wrong with say her video game it's anyone elses fault but her own even if that person is 10 feet away from her not even looking at the game. She has tripped and fallen over her backpack that she left in the middle of the room, stood up yelled at Ty and slapped him cuz he made her trip. She wil not play with the other kids at school unless they follow her rules and listen to what she wants them to. Why the kids put up with her I am not sure, and I am sure that soon that will end when they realize they don't have to be friends with her.
If you ask her to be quiet cause her brother is sleeping, she will wait until you are busy, run up and scream in his ear just to be defiant, and then when you correct her she will look like she had no clue what she did wasn't okay.
Took her to the Ped. yesterday, for her 8 yr. check up. It was the Dr. holding her legs, I had the arms and mouth (so that in case she bit it was me and not the Dr.)
just to look in her ears and mouth. It was so hard to control her as she is getting so strong. The Dr. asked "You do this every day?" Yeah, in one way or another. It's constant. You ask her to grab her hairbrush that it 3 feet away and she will turn and do something completely different than what she should. According to the neuropsych testing that was done last year (what they could do, due to miss attitude not cooperating) said that she is of "low average intelligence"
I just don't know if this is a behavior choice that she is making, behavior choices that she has little to no control over, or what. I don't even know where to go from here.