Hello everyone. This is Mykie, and although I do not personally suffer from epilepsy, my boyfriend does. He is nearly 28 and the grand-mal seizures started 2 years ago.
With no family or medical history pointing to a possible cause, the doctors aren't sure what is causing them. CAT scans, MRIs, MRAs, and EEGs all show he is normal. He has been on Tegratol, Dilantin, Klonopin, (i feel like I'm forgetting one) and now Depacote...none of which are either stopping the seizures or allowing him to live a normal life.
The drugs give him the balance of a toddler, the memory of a gold fish (he can hardly remember the last 3 years we've spent together), and extreme fatigue and irritablility. The seizures come once about every 3 to 4 months now and are preceeded by about a month of what we call "hot flashes" (the doctors have used the term "petit-mal seizures") which upset his stomach as well as his frame of mind. He has had seizures in his sleep and while he was awake.
Two days ago he was on his way home from the grocery store when he had a seizure...in his car...while he was driving....with no warning, and no hot flashes before-hand. It took him an hour to come out of the uncontious state this time (normally it takes him about 15-30 minutes)...which the doctors say is WAY too long.
He is an auto mechanic, so it is possible he will lose his job as well as his driver's license, and he is sinking deeper and deeper into depression. He is currently taking Zoloft for it, but in combination with the Depacote and Klonopin, he is so tired that all he can think about is sleep. No one we've talked to so far has had any answers, or can even relate to what is going on.
I'm wondering if there is anyone else out there whose life has completely stopped because they have seizures. What do you do? How do you deal? Is there any hope for this ever going away?
I saw so many entries of people who "forget" they even have epilepsy, which is so wonderful! But I need some help. How long did it take your doctors to figure out what medicine was right for you, and the proper dosage? Is there anyone else that can't find a cause for their seizures?
How do you tell a 28 year old man that he can't drive, work, or even live by himself ever again because he has seizures and the doctors can't get them under control?...and then, how do you deal with the lasting depression that follows?
I know that every case is different, but I just can't find any information that even comes close to my boyfriend's case. I'm desperate. Any words of wisdom or comfort would be greatly appreciated. We are willing to try ANYTHING to get his life back to "normal". Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. Good luck to everyone with this condition! Just keep hangin' on!!
With no family or medical history pointing to a possible cause, the doctors aren't sure what is causing them. CAT scans, MRIs, MRAs, and EEGs all show he is normal. He has been on Tegratol, Dilantin, Klonopin, (i feel like I'm forgetting one) and now Depacote...none of which are either stopping the seizures or allowing him to live a normal life.
The drugs give him the balance of a toddler, the memory of a gold fish (he can hardly remember the last 3 years we've spent together), and extreme fatigue and irritablility. The seizures come once about every 3 to 4 months now and are preceeded by about a month of what we call "hot flashes" (the doctors have used the term "petit-mal seizures") which upset his stomach as well as his frame of mind. He has had seizures in his sleep and while he was awake.
Two days ago he was on his way home from the grocery store when he had a seizure...in his car...while he was driving....with no warning, and no hot flashes before-hand. It took him an hour to come out of the uncontious state this time (normally it takes him about 15-30 minutes)...which the doctors say is WAY too long.
He is an auto mechanic, so it is possible he will lose his job as well as his driver's license, and he is sinking deeper and deeper into depression. He is currently taking Zoloft for it, but in combination with the Depacote and Klonopin, he is so tired that all he can think about is sleep. No one we've talked to so far has had any answers, or can even relate to what is going on.
I'm wondering if there is anyone else out there whose life has completely stopped because they have seizures. What do you do? How do you deal? Is there any hope for this ever going away?
I saw so many entries of people who "forget" they even have epilepsy, which is so wonderful! But I need some help. How long did it take your doctors to figure out what medicine was right for you, and the proper dosage? Is there anyone else that can't find a cause for their seizures?
How do you tell a 28 year old man that he can't drive, work, or even live by himself ever again because he has seizures and the doctors can't get them under control?...and then, how do you deal with the lasting depression that follows?
I know that every case is different, but I just can't find any information that even comes close to my boyfriend's case. I'm desperate. Any words of wisdom or comfort would be greatly appreciated. We are willing to try ANYTHING to get his life back to "normal". Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. Good luck to everyone with this condition! Just keep hangin' on!!