Hi charwva
I had a similar experience - a seizure leading to a brain tumor diagnosis. My diagnosis came after only one seizure which, fortunately or unfortunately, was severe enough to freak my dad out (and he doesn't freak out easily) causing him to call 911. But I was lucky and didn't get hurt otherwise.
May I ask if you've had a second opinion? Sometimes doctors who aren't used to dealing with tumors may think they are inoperable whereas doctors who have more experience can safely remove some or all of the tumor. The first neurosurgeon I saw didn't even want to do a biopsy due to the location of my tumor. Later, one of his colleagues sent me to an especially skilled surgeon because he felt that in the long run, I would be better off getting as much tumor removed as possible. Because of the surgery, I have a better prognosis, and as a welcome side-effect, my seizures are fewer and farther between and much less severe.
That may not be the case for you, but it's always a good idea to get a second opinion. And you have an excellent brain tumor center in the next state. Duke University has what many consider to be the best brain tumor center in the country.
Sorry you have so many other things on your plate to deal with. Goodness knows Keppra makes some things worse even if it works well for seizures.
It sucks that your partner doesn't get it. I often feel that my sister and others think I'm making a big deal out of things when in fact, I try to play things down just so they won't feel uncomfortable. But unlike you with your partner, I don't have to deal with the situation every day.
Anyway, NO, you are not crazy!
Hugs!