I am new here...I don't even know where to start! My husband who have been married to for 11 years has epilepsy. He was honest to me when we first started dating. I knew what it is because a family had seizures as a child. For me I feel it's probably harder being married to a man with it than a man being married to woman who has it. Men are more prideful and feel they are they are "the man" and the provider. I am a christian and I truly feel God has been with me and him. He has had 10 wrecks in his life. He went 2 years without having a seizure due to new meds he was taking but a doctor told him he had the kind that would never be completely controlled by meds. I struggle alot with him, cause he's always wanting to drive and then he gets mad at me. I am so frustrated with this. I love him and care alot about him and he can't understand how I feel. He says I don't understand but I do. I know it's hard to give up driving BUT I also know what a huge risk he takes if he does and he'd be putting MY life in danger as well as others. It's not worth it to me. Even during the 2 years he was driving we went places together, nothing has changed except I'm the one driving.