Hi everybody! I really need to share this because I have no idea what to do now. If someone has the patience to read all that and reply, I'll really appreciate that.
I've always had things happen to me before - like I could sit and stare for quite a while, couldn't concentrate on work. I had some weird attacks when I would lose control over myself and just say really bad things to my family who I love with all my heart, or even hit my brother who is a total sweetheart and has never even risen his voice on me or done anything bad to me. I am a total freak and can't stand my boyfriend being away from me, or even out for too long - I know he drinks a lot and then drives home on a motorbike, and I'm scared to death that he can be drugged (as it already happened) or just hit by a car because you just can't drive around as fast as he does being that drunk! When I wake up in the middle of the night and he's not there I can't sleep any more. I just stay awake, and then start calling him and asking to take a taxi and come home, as I know - the longer he stays out, the worse it becomes, and he says I'm just too neurotic and a pain to deal with.
Now, the real problem. In the past couple of moths I started having some gaps in my memory which surprised me - it never happened before, I was okay, and I'm only 25. My boyfriend told me I behaved strange - I would have some twitching in my arms and legs, or get up and walk up to the mirror and start brushing my hair, "time travel", not recognize him, get scared and run away and lock up in the bathroom, get upset and try to jump off the balcony or cut my veins open with his razor, or just get hysterical and never stop until he would give me a xanax and hold me down and talk to me gently until I fall asleep. I've been really stressed out at that period of time, and that's when we went to the hospital to have me checked out. It was epilepsy, and I got some drugs for it, to which I had a really bad reaction. After a third drug my boyfriend looked everything up online and found an exact diagnosis - frontal lobe epilepsy. All this time he was really nice and patient with me, even though some days I would only remember a couple of hours. That was really strange, especially after he made a few videos of me doing weird stuff during seizures and made me watch them. He thought I didn't take it seriously enough, but I was just losing it. He wouldn't let me go anywhere because the seizures could happen anytime, anywhere, I could have a new reaction to those new and new medications, I could still have seizures on those medications and God only knows what else.
Last night he gave me more drugs and sneaked out to the bar to get drunk. I woke up and freaked out, though the new medication seemed to be working so well all that day (and still does). That night he told me why he left me alone there, though he knew I could freak out if I woke up alone. He said he just can't stand it anymore, it's just too much for one person to handle. He can't watch me 24/7, and I very well understand him - I saw those videos, and I'm not even be sure I would be able to deal with someone acting like that even for a few days, and he's been doing it for a couple of months. He feels responsible for me - my family is very far away from here, and we're the only ones we both have as a family. I'm well aware that these medications have depressive moods as a side effect, but after this outbreak I just can't handle it anymore. Thankfully, I now have no memory gaps which hopefully means no seizures, but.. He can't sleep at night anymore because he's afraid I'd wake up and start doing things, so he drugs me up with sedatives, goes out and gets drunk to be able to sleep. I just want all this to stop. I'm hurting him, and I have been all the time I've had this problem. He's been holding up okay, but he's just a human being, he's not made of iron. I'm afraid to lose him and stay alone. And I just don't want anything anymore, I just feel upset all the time and have to run to the bathroom to cry. I don't even want to live anymore - what's the point? Maybe I'm just really too neurotic and I need to try and calm down, it's the medication speaking those horrible things into my brain, and everything's going to be okay.
I've always had things happen to me before - like I could sit and stare for quite a while, couldn't concentrate on work. I had some weird attacks when I would lose control over myself and just say really bad things to my family who I love with all my heart, or even hit my brother who is a total sweetheart and has never even risen his voice on me or done anything bad to me. I am a total freak and can't stand my boyfriend being away from me, or even out for too long - I know he drinks a lot and then drives home on a motorbike, and I'm scared to death that he can be drugged (as it already happened) or just hit by a car because you just can't drive around as fast as he does being that drunk! When I wake up in the middle of the night and he's not there I can't sleep any more. I just stay awake, and then start calling him and asking to take a taxi and come home, as I know - the longer he stays out, the worse it becomes, and he says I'm just too neurotic and a pain to deal with.
Now, the real problem. In the past couple of moths I started having some gaps in my memory which surprised me - it never happened before, I was okay, and I'm only 25. My boyfriend told me I behaved strange - I would have some twitching in my arms and legs, or get up and walk up to the mirror and start brushing my hair, "time travel", not recognize him, get scared and run away and lock up in the bathroom, get upset and try to jump off the balcony or cut my veins open with his razor, or just get hysterical and never stop until he would give me a xanax and hold me down and talk to me gently until I fall asleep. I've been really stressed out at that period of time, and that's when we went to the hospital to have me checked out. It was epilepsy, and I got some drugs for it, to which I had a really bad reaction. After a third drug my boyfriend looked everything up online and found an exact diagnosis - frontal lobe epilepsy. All this time he was really nice and patient with me, even though some days I would only remember a couple of hours. That was really strange, especially after he made a few videos of me doing weird stuff during seizures and made me watch them. He thought I didn't take it seriously enough, but I was just losing it. He wouldn't let me go anywhere because the seizures could happen anytime, anywhere, I could have a new reaction to those new and new medications, I could still have seizures on those medications and God only knows what else.
Last night he gave me more drugs and sneaked out to the bar to get drunk. I woke up and freaked out, though the new medication seemed to be working so well all that day (and still does). That night he told me why he left me alone there, though he knew I could freak out if I woke up alone. He said he just can't stand it anymore, it's just too much for one person to handle. He can't watch me 24/7, and I very well understand him - I saw those videos, and I'm not even be sure I would be able to deal with someone acting like that even for a few days, and he's been doing it for a couple of months. He feels responsible for me - my family is very far away from here, and we're the only ones we both have as a family. I'm well aware that these medications have depressive moods as a side effect, but after this outbreak I just can't handle it anymore. Thankfully, I now have no memory gaps which hopefully means no seizures, but.. He can't sleep at night anymore because he's afraid I'd wake up and start doing things, so he drugs me up with sedatives, goes out and gets drunk to be able to sleep. I just want all this to stop. I'm hurting him, and I have been all the time I've had this problem. He's been holding up okay, but he's just a human being, he's not made of iron. I'm afraid to lose him and stay alone. And I just don't want anything anymore, I just feel upset all the time and have to run to the bathroom to cry. I don't even want to live anymore - what's the point? Maybe I'm just really too neurotic and I need to try and calm down, it's the medication speaking those horrible things into my brain, and everything's going to be okay.