I have adult onset epilepsy. I am 63. I was diagnosed about one year ago. I have had some adjustment problems. My initial problem was with keppra. It made me mentally ill( I am familiar with m.i. because I practiced law for 30 years and had clients with m.i.). I was switched to lamictal and I am doing much better. I sometimes feel I don't get much support from my spouse because my epilepsy has changed our life. I feel like she blames me for that. I am seeing a psychologist and that helps somewhat, but when I express my feelings to my spouse she somehow turns it around on me and makes me feel like everything is my fault. I need help with this issue. My shrink says to keep letting my feelings be known, but I only feel worse when I do. Hopefully someone on this forum has experienced similar issues and can give me some insight.