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For the longest time now, my husband's boss has been coming to him during his work hours, telling him to look at his car. Now, last year, a year ago... I told my husband that because his boss was coming to us all the time, to ask that my husband look at his cars and fix them. It was causing alot of stress for me. My husband works first shift, 6am - 2pm. I am at home with three kids, and once he gets home, I feel like I need a break. But, the last time this came about, my husband walks in the door from work at 2:30pm, and at 2:38pm his boss is calling him, saying he's in OUR Backyard by our garage and wants my husband to look at his car! I mean come on! We have a life! For this guy to come by after he walks in the door from his job and expect him to look at his car and fix it, without even asking first, really made me mad! I told my husband last year to please let this guy know that we were going to be taking a break on working on cars for now. Since then, this guy keeps bringing this up to my husband at work.
Like today, he comes walking in the door telling me that his boss said he wants him to look at his car on sunday! What the heck? What cant this guy get through this head? We said were not looking at cars at this time. For the past year we've said this. Its been months now since my husband even looked at his car and fixed some breaks. MONTHS. Now. this guy is saying something is wrong with his breaks again, and because my husband fixed them, he says he needs to look at this car again. Well, first off... its been MONTHS since my husband did any work on this car. I can see if it was a day or a week, and he noticed this. But when you change parts on a car, and it works fine for months, and then months later, another problem shows up, how in the world can this guy tell my husband this new problem is due to what he did MONTHS ago, and he has to fix it?
has this guy ever thought that maybe, just maybe his car is a piece of junk and to look into getting a new one? Or has he ever thought about how long parts can work, before they need to be fixed again? Or maybe something else went wrong?
This is so making me stresed out. This guy expects my husband to do this work, because my husband charges half of the labor charge to do the work compared to him taking it to a local shop and getting it done there.
When my husband does work like this, I get no help from my husband with the kids. its like him working a longer shift and god only knows how long it would take him to fix the car. And on top of that, this boss of his drops off his car while he is at work! His boss has different days off than my husband. So on a day that my husband works, and his boss is off, his boss will come by our home without my husband being here and just drop the car off. Then expect him to come home, and start working on the car ASAP.
I dont know what else to say to this guy to get it through his head that we are not working on other people's cars at this time! Heck we still are looking for a part for our car to fix our a/c! Why would we put his car before our own? OMG.
So if you were me, how would you go about this?
Like today, he comes walking in the door telling me that his boss said he wants him to look at his car on sunday! What the heck? What cant this guy get through this head? We said were not looking at cars at this time. For the past year we've said this. Its been months now since my husband even looked at his car and fixed some breaks. MONTHS. Now. this guy is saying something is wrong with his breaks again, and because my husband fixed them, he says he needs to look at this car again. Well, first off... its been MONTHS since my husband did any work on this car. I can see if it was a day or a week, and he noticed this. But when you change parts on a car, and it works fine for months, and then months later, another problem shows up, how in the world can this guy tell my husband this new problem is due to what he did MONTHS ago, and he has to fix it?
has this guy ever thought that maybe, just maybe his car is a piece of junk and to look into getting a new one? Or has he ever thought about how long parts can work, before they need to be fixed again? Or maybe something else went wrong?
This is so making me stresed out. This guy expects my husband to do this work, because my husband charges half of the labor charge to do the work compared to him taking it to a local shop and getting it done there.
When my husband does work like this, I get no help from my husband with the kids. its like him working a longer shift and god only knows how long it would take him to fix the car. And on top of that, this boss of his drops off his car while he is at work! His boss has different days off than my husband. So on a day that my husband works, and his boss is off, his boss will come by our home without my husband being here and just drop the car off. Then expect him to come home, and start working on the car ASAP.
I dont know what else to say to this guy to get it through his head that we are not working on other people's cars at this time! Heck we still are looking for a part for our car to fix our a/c! Why would we put his car before our own? OMG.
So if you were me, how would you go about this?