Hi, I've had grand mal epilepsy since I was 17, and it's fairly well controlled now. However, I'm researching the relationship between symptoms of "inattentive ADD" and epilepsy. Are there symilar symptoms ? I'm not motivated, I'm confused, disorganised, forgetful. These are apparently symptoms of inattentive ADD. There are other ADD symptoms I could tick off. I've had a history of this behavior my whole life, but have coped reasonably as an adult through having an "in the moment" career of press photography. I find myself in relationships with strong controlling women, perhaps as a crutch for my own behavior. I end up driving them nuts with my chaos. Right now my relationship is on the rocks. She's been very supportive but is reaching her wits end. The question is…am I missing an opportunity to get past these symptoms with appropriate treatment for ADD…Are they just symptoms of the epilepsy and the medication ? Or is there a chance I'm also ADD. I've read it's possible ...can that be treated. I'm grateful for stability to seizures but I'm hoping there's a chance I can improve my lifestyle. Many thanks