my bf just recently had a seizure after not having one for 6 yrs and not takin meds for 6 yrs. we been together bout a month and he had just told me about this the night before so scared crap outta me and kids. pure fluke he was even with us bc he wasnt going to go with us i jus thank God he was tho. but hes trying to work thru the pain in his arm and wont go to the dr. theyve checked it out at the hospital as he was there 2 full days before being released but he works where i do as a mixer and lifting the heavy ingredients is not helping him at all its making his arm worse day by day. i thought maybe bursitis but he didnt fall too terribly hard. tried layin down before he hit the concrete and theres no bruising. it happened a week ago today. he wont see dr bc of bill and not wanting time off of work bc of big bill he has coming but im afraid he will cause more permanent damage. what can i get him to do that will help with pain? tried ibuprofen and muscle rub. not helping. would alternating hot and cold help? any suggestions would be great i just cant bare seeing him in so much pain. its his arm thru to his neck.