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Hi everybody :) My name is Heather and our daughter had her first seizure a week ago today. She is 15 and had spent the night at a friends house, a girls slumber party 7 girls total. One of the girls mom called me at 3:17am to tell me that our daughter was having a seizure and that the EMT wanted to talk to me. He asked me some general questions and said they would meet me at the ER. They did a tox screen - negative, blood work - normal, CT scan -normal. We had a follow up appointment with ther primary physician on Monday and she had an EEG on Thursday that we are still waiting for results on. Epilepsy runs on her fathers (my ex husband of 14 years) side of the family. He has it, his mother had it, all of his mothers sisters had it and her brother (who lives with my ex) has it. Her physician said "walks like a duck, looks like a duck, quacks like a duck...its probably a duck" however he does not want to start her on medication before he has all the information, which in the end is ok considering some of the side effects the meds bring with them. I dont want her on something if she doesnt need it. So here we are, on this roller coaster ride...not knowing where to go from here, what to do, how to feel. Im hoping that by joining this group that I can find the support of others who are parents with a child or children with epilepsy, and support/encouragement/advice from young teens on the forum who have epilepsy and how I can best support my daughter without being a control freak. Thats it...in a very large nutshell.
 
Hello Heather. You will find tremendous support on this forum.
I am sorry; this has no doubt come as a real shock to you.
My Son is 26 and has Epilepsy. We have no family history of E. I am wondering if there were any prior signs of Epilepsy that may have gone unrecognized. They can be easy to miss (happen quickly).
It sounds as though your health care is good and that she is getting immediate help/guidance.
I added a link below from another member of forum Robin. Robin’s daughter also has E and with amazing research and never give up attitude she has managed to get her daughter not only off meds but seizure free. Its WORTH the read.

Neurofeedback - Rebecca's Story

I cannot begin to tell you how much I have learnt on this forum from its amazing members. My Son is also currently undergoing Neurofeedback therapy. There are many options and there is a lot of hope.
A big warm welcome….yes under stressful circumstances, but we can at the very least be here for each other.
 
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It has been two weeks since Kait had her TC! Small steps forward...I just keep reminding myself, small steps :) Its been a roller coaster these last two weeks thats for sure.
 
It has been two weeks since Kait had her TC! Small steps forward...I just keep reminding myself, small steps :) Its been a roller coaster these last two weeks thats for sure.
Hey you... good evening.
Did you get results back from the eeg yet? Any diagnosis or meds prescribed?
Hope she's been feeling well =)
 
Hey, hey, hey girl! Good evening to you!!

EEG was normal. However, I am told that can by typical. MRI came back normal as well. She sees her neurologist on the 22nd and her primary DR. said he would be surprised if her neurologist didnt prescribe meds. He also figures he will want a sleep deprived EEG based on her sleeping habits and the 'time' she had her seizure. We've heard great things about the neurologist she is going to be seeing...so we're keeping our fingers crossed.
 
Oooohh good, a great neuro can make all the difference.
And you can tell her from me, sleep-deprived eeg's are actually kind of fun, if you want 'em to be!! Get mom to stay up with her all night, get a bunch of girlie movies and make popcorn, paint your toes... it's a great opportunity to spend time together and laugh at each other when you're both going cross-eyed at five in the morning!!
We usually make a pot of coffee around two a.m., watch another movie, then maybe nap for an hour (they said it was ok), then get up and watch another movie.
Haha great fun =)
 
Thats a GREAT idea!! TONS of chick flicks that we love that all the boys in the house dislike! LOL
 
HAHA now that's the spirit!!!
Kick em all to bed and bring on matthew mconaughey and clive owens !!

(((HUGS))) I know it seems so crazy now and you're so desperate for answers, but oddly enough there are the small things that can be used as positives.

Girl's nights are the best. I hope you guys have a blast!!
 
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