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Hi everyone,

I’m reaching out to ask for help with setting up a GoFundMe. The popular crowdfunding platform is not available on my country. I recently shared a glimpse of what has being happening with me the last few months. It’s being a huge struggle for real not just because of the condition itself, but because of a lack of support and harmful practices around me.

For context, my father recently took me to a church with the belief that “faith healing” would cure my epilepsy. This wasn’t just any church,the pastor there has a reputation for exploiting vulnerable people. (The name of of the Church is called Mercyland deliverance ministries, you can look it up on google or on YouTube) He sells items like “miracle soap” and “miracle towels” to the uneducated and desperate, promising that these things can cure serious medical conditions. When I was taken there, I was even chained as part of a so-called healing ritual, an experience that left me feeling deeply betrayed and dehumanized.

This isn’t an attack on faith or Christianity, many Christians would agree that what this pastor is doing is wrong. But it’s important to speak up because this is not just about me, it’s about the countless others who may be in the same situation or worse. There’s a young girl with epilepsy and a broken leg who is still there, living under these conditions, and there are many more who could become future victims.

Sadly, my mother’s life was also affected by a similar mindset. She passed away 19 years ago after my father removed her from a hospital to take her to a faith healer, believing it would save her. Nineteen years later, he hasn’t learned a lesson, and his decisions nearly cost me my life as well. Ignorance is one thing, but when it endangers others’ lives, it becomes a much bigger problem.

I’m asking for assistance in setting up this GoFundMe not only to cover my medical expenses—EEGs, MRIs, medications, and neurotherapy but also to spread awareness and to File a Lawsuit against my Father and the Church, about these dangerous practices and the experience I had to deal with myself.
The Charlatan needs to be stopped and for good too. If anyone here has experience with crowdfunding or can guide me in creating an effective campaign, your help would mean the world to me.

Thank you so much for reading, and thank you for any support you might offer.

Warm regards,
Owhen
 
It is a useful cause.

I don't have any experience with it, but if I did, I would set it up in a heartbeat. I'll have a look later.. I've not really played around with it but how hard can it be to set up.
 
It is a useful cause.

I don't have any experience with it, but if I did, I would set it up in a heartbeat. I'll have a look later.. I've not really played around with it but how hard can it be to set up.
Thank you so much, Gina. I really appreciate the thought. I know this cause is a lot, but having even just a bit of support from people like you means the world to me. Setting it up is supposed to be fairly straightforward, but it can be a bit tricky navigating it all on my own. So if you do get the chance to look into it later, it would mean a lot. Take all the time you need, though, I understand you’ve got a lot on your plate right now. Thanks again for caring, Gina.
 
All I'm going to add on this matter, when you are doing a gofundme type thing watch who and where things take place because there are so many scams of people wanting to get personal information. It's all over the national news that I've been seeing on a daily basis so I am very protective of who obtains my information to be honest.

A suggestion that comes to mind is reaching out to the Epilepsy Foundation for a contact to see if there are any resources that can assist you build what is desired. Another thought that comes to mind, ask the person at the epilepsy foundation for better guidance how to move forward and manage the issue taking place with the lawsuit.

In situations like this there can be an attorney in your area you can speak with that will do the case pro bono (free) but before anything takes place you'll have to go through meeting with them first and explaining all in detail. This may require you doing some foot work on Google using it as a phone book looking up the attorney offices in your area then making phone calls setting up meetings to discuss your case.

Don't know a whole lot about the law as I never moved forward with legal studies but learned a little. Hope the above thoughts are helpful. Wish you the best with everything!
 
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