Basically, i want to take a girl on a date. She has epilepsy and my idea was pumpkin picking then going to a haunted house or hay ride. But im afraid to take her to the hay ride/haunted house. Would a seizure trigger if there is flashing lights there? or an she possibly have a different form of epilepsy where the lights dont set it off? and if this idea is bad, do u have any suggestions? she has no idea that ik she has epilepsy.So me asking her this is a no go. How i know is irrelevant so if we could please focus on my concern that would be great thanks!