I got a call tonight. A very special phone call. My nephew, who is in the Marine Corp., called me this evening. Normally I am ecstatic when he calls, but tonight his call made me feel badly.
You see the last time he dialed up my phone we chatted for a very long time. About everything, from his time in Iraq, to his special girlfriend, to his being temporarily stationed at Ft. Sill for extended training. The training should boost him up an extra rank level. He's going to be at Ft. Sill for a month, then he is back to his home base on beautiful Hawaii. During our phone call I mentioned my recent diagnosis of E and my troubles with the neuro and dilantin. We sort of glossed over it and talked about his stuff.
Tonight he called and is 'sneaking' home to see specifically me. He knows what I have is not life threatening etc., but wants to see me. He and a buddy are both sneaking home for the long weekend to see family. He is stationed off base and is positive they won't get caught. Another buddy is picking them up at the airport when they get back. The ticket is already bought and his Mom & Dad are helping him pay for the ticket to boot! IF he gets caught he could lose this opportunity, he could be considered AWOL, he could lose his rank!
I know there is nothing I can do about this now, and man am I ever sorry for saying anything to him. He and I are the only living blood relatives and we've shared quite a bit about life, so I didn't think of not telling him. Just damn.
You see the last time he dialed up my phone we chatted for a very long time. About everything, from his time in Iraq, to his special girlfriend, to his being temporarily stationed at Ft. Sill for extended training. The training should boost him up an extra rank level. He's going to be at Ft. Sill for a month, then he is back to his home base on beautiful Hawaii. During our phone call I mentioned my recent diagnosis of E and my troubles with the neuro and dilantin. We sort of glossed over it and talked about his stuff.
Tonight he called and is 'sneaking' home to see specifically me. He knows what I have is not life threatening etc., but wants to see me. He and a buddy are both sneaking home for the long weekend to see family. He is stationed off base and is positive they won't get caught. Another buddy is picking them up at the airport when they get back. The ticket is already bought and his Mom & Dad are helping him pay for the ticket to boot! IF he gets caught he could lose this opportunity, he could be considered AWOL, he could lose his rank!
I know there is nothing I can do about this now, and man am I ever sorry for saying anything to him. He and I are the only living blood relatives and we've shared quite a bit about life, so I didn't think of not telling him. Just damn.