Hi Sarah, welcome to CWE!
Sorry you are having to deal with this -- I know the initial stages of a diagnosis can be very scary and confusing. Don't be too distressed by the "epilepsy" tag -- it's pretty standard after two seizures that don't have any apparent cause (like infection or toxins). Most likely your neurologist will have you do an EEG and an MRI. Based on the results, the next conversation would be about whether and how to treat.
Often, seizures are a combination of a lowered seizure threshold (from a primary, perhaps unknown cause), and a secondary trigger that pushes you over that threshold. It might be helpful if you can right down everything you remember about the days and hours leading up to the seizures, in the hopes of identifying things that may have been secondary triggers. Look for anything that might have stressed you physically, physiologically, or emotionally. The #1 trigger is fatigue, but it can also be things like low blood sugar, low blood pressure, food sensitivity (gluten/MSG/aspartame), nutritional/metabolic issues, hormones, illness/infection, photosensitivity, dehydration, etc. If you remember any unusual or unexplained symptoms or episodes, write them down to let your neurologist know. The neurologist will also want to know if there's any family history of seizures or other neurological events, as well as your own health history.
In general, it can help to write down any questions you have for the neurologist as well as the answers he/she provides. Make sure you are clear on everything and know how to contact the neuro if you have additional questions. If possible, bring someone with you to help take notes.
If you have been put on medication, ask about it's potential side effects and anything you might need to know about taking it. I remember feeling terrible after my initial seizures. I though it was all due to the seizures or some underlying disorder, but it turned out I was way overmedicated and that was causing a good deal of my distress.
I hope you feel free to check in here with any questions and concerns. CWE members have "seen it all", and are a great resource for info and support.
Best,
Nakamova