I am sorry for your news, but you have found some very supportive and friendly people here on this forum. As for the colon surgery. My maternal grandmother had to have both her bladder and colon (large and small) removed at the age of 65, and I just want to let you know that she never let her stop that from living her life to its fullest. She loved to dance and was a very social person. She continued to do the things she loved but she was also wise enough to stay with her doctor, take her medications as ordered and keep her appointments. I'm not saying she didn't have any problems over the years, but she did live to the ripe age of 88 and danced, traveled, dated, and did whatever else she wanted. She just had to make a few adjustments in the way she ate and how she managed her personal health, etc. I hope this was an encouragement to you that even though you have just received some devistating news, you can decide to whether to let this news beat you or you beat this news. You take good care of yourself and I look forward to reading many posts from you in the future.
Big Hugs,
Cindy
Thank you so much, Cindy. It was very kind of you to take the time to post this. It does help.
Thanks again.
Patty