MonkeyBoy
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I would caution to many of you in here to step back and ponder the advice you get from the shoulder you may be leaning on. Not to say it is ill intended but may just be misguided or even dead wrong for you specifically. Try taking a little while to outline what it is you are suffering with, how it is being treated, how you feel, who is giving you advice, and is all this sustainable for you lifetime?
In the end you must take charge and be your own self no matter the treatment(s) you choose. People around you will come and they will go. By all means have relationships and share information but in the end always remember it is your life and you must make the decisions. I would also evaluate the age and experience of those you are getting advice from. What is their background? Where do they get their experience from? What are their motives and/or agendas? This forum is incredible and is full of some very helpful people - many have helped me in a short time but I evaluate each and everyone of them and go and research them and their advice. Does it make sense to me and is it something I want to tell my relative about that I am helping? Even in my situation it is his decision to take my advice or not. I do my best to not push it on him or be offended or upset if he does something else. In the end it is his body and life not mine.
Just throwing a few words out for you to ponder...... Thanks to those who have helped me!!! You know who you are.....
In the end you must take charge and be your own self no matter the treatment(s) you choose. People around you will come and they will go. By all means have relationships and share information but in the end always remember it is your life and you must make the decisions. I would also evaluate the age and experience of those you are getting advice from. What is their background? Where do they get their experience from? What are their motives and/or agendas? This forum is incredible and is full of some very helpful people - many have helped me in a short time but I evaluate each and everyone of them and go and research them and their advice. Does it make sense to me and is it something I want to tell my relative about that I am helping? Even in my situation it is his decision to take my advice or not. I do my best to not push it on him or be offended or upset if he does something else. In the end it is his body and life not mine.
Just throwing a few words out for you to ponder...... Thanks to those who have helped me!!! You know who you are.....

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