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When you first start dating someone (and even while your dating) what are some of the things that you shouldn't do?

For me it's (I'm a girl) :

Trim your nose hairs- there's nothing worse than seeing nose hair hanging down to your lip blowing in the wind!

Comb your hair- It doesn't have to look like you just came from the barber, but don't have bed head.

Facial hair- Either shave or have a beard, stubble isn't that great

Cologne- Don't douse yourself in it if you want me to come close to you, if you've got too much on I might pass out (goes for women too in my opinion)

Dress for the occasion- If you're taking me to a nice restaurant don't wear a sports sweatshirt, tennis shoes and nasty looking jeans


How about you guys?
 
that's a good list

lol.... :roflmao:

I'd like to hear from the men what women shouldn't do.
 
i actually meant to post "do not go on dates "
 
valeriedl said:
Come on we need to know, at least tell us the most important ones. Like the top 100 :roflmao:
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That reminds me - being overly demanding is one. ;)

All of these happened to me:

A friend from high school I dated (not in HS, but years later) talked about her children in front of them, about how much they were bothering her. They were about 3 and 10 years old - in other words, they knew. No second date for her, although I would have been thrilled in HS to have dated her.

The one who said she was single when we met but later admitted she "meant" separated. She lived in her husband's house, she said, but he came over only about once a week to cut the grass. Uh huh.

Being separated in general. Get divorced and maybe we'll talk.

Telling me on our first date that this is your first date ever. And you're 38.
 
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Don't spend the entire date on your cell phone!

Emails, texts, face book and twitter will still be there when the dates over - trust me.

Better yet just turn the thing off completely.

I hate it so much when I'm out with anyone and they spend more time talking on their phone than they do with me :soap:
 
all of my friends, relatives, whatevers want to call when i am on dates or knee deep in the girl.

so most of my calls are missed or call backs.
 
In all seriousness...

Don't:

1. Talk about "The Big 3" on the first date - Religion, Sex, Politics.

2. Make guys pay for everything - Dating sucks as it is. We pay for everything, then you complain to your girlfriends about your night and never call again. Meanwhile, I'm out $50 and I don't have a girlfriend. This is a shit economy Your Highness. You have a job; at least cover the tip of a meal if you're not going to see the guy again. It's also a good way to tell us that you're not interested without saying it.

3. Play "hard to get"



4. Wear perfume - We're probably not going to a restaurant more expensive than an Applebee's when we're first dating. Don't need to smell like a whatever the hell perfume smells like. I can never grasp what it is because it's too damn strong.

5. Keep your cell phone off during the date - It's a losing situation for the guy. It either means that the girl is bored and would rather talk to somebody else or that her girlfriend called her up and gave her an excuse to cut the date short.
 
Don't get so drunk on your first date that she has to take you home, not for some sexy time, but because you've become so paralytic that you can't walk or remember you own address forcing your date to have to go through your wallet to find said address. Then don't abuse your date while throwing up in the middle of the lounge room floor because she doesn't want to do the dance with no pants with you...... True story.

I've been out of the dating scene for 6 years (not with Mr vomitron) I don't think I would know how to date anymore.
 
big rule with me,

no sex with drunk chicks, one they stink,
two they cannot call rape because they dont remember what happened
or anything strange. I like a girl within to have have full cognitive ability.

two, back when i rode my motorcycle, I had to have somewhere to leave my boots,
cats are protective and like to piss in boots.
 
egad

CrunchyFrog said:
Don't get so drunk on your first date that she has to take you home, not for some sexy time, but because you've become so paralytic that you can't walk or remember you own address forcing your date to have to go through your wallet to find said address. Then don't abuse your date while throwing up in the middle of the lounge room floor because she doesn't want to do the dance with no pants with you...... True story.

I've been out of the dating scene for 6 years (not with Mr vomitron) I don't think I would know how to date anymore.
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