I am online here regularly but in a more silent way Seagull, I do post occasionally but I'm lacking the time for long posts and reading all posts because of a nasty divorce I was drawn into since the past six months, thanks to my unfaithful husband who I have kicked out of our home last June, after being married to him for 21+ years and after having a relationship with my soon to be ex for over 28 years... Threw away my best years on a guy who appeared not to be worth it.
The three kids and the care for my special needs eldest are on me, aside from my full time job as a teacher, and I have been and am very busy dividing all our stuff, getting the mortgage on my name and taking care of all financial, practical and administrative things that need to be done. Ex is busy with his own problems and his new home, alone now and full with remorse because of what he has lost, his sl*t has dumped him right after I did and choose to stay with her own husband (who still doesn't know about anything) and her own kids. What comes around...
So 2016 really s*cked for me but... 2017 will be my year! I'm expecting the divorce papers from court on the 10th of January.
Thanks for thinking about me, it feels good to know you miss me. You'll understand I would like to see the Bowie movie but going abroad to do so is not the right timing I'm afraid.