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Not sure I posted in right place DM Not Been on here for some time hope she ok.Incase she reading I going see Laseras in London I don't think it gong to holland there still ticket for London show I know she like me David Bowie fan if it possible air Berlin doing cheap tickets.i know a place overnight stay really cheap
Hope all is well with children
 
You can PM Dutch Mom if you want to check in on her. :)
 
I am online here regularly but in a more silent way Seagull, I do post occasionally but I'm lacking the time for long posts and reading all posts because of a nasty divorce I was drawn into since the past six months, thanks to my unfaithful husband who I have kicked out of our home last June, after being married to him for 21+ years and after having a relationship with my soon to be ex for over 28 years... Threw away my best years on a guy who appeared not to be worth it.

The three kids and the care for my special needs eldest are on me, aside from my full time job as a teacher, and I have been and am very busy dividing all our stuff, getting the mortgage on my name and taking care of all financial, practical and administrative things that need to be done. Ex is busy with his own problems and his new home, alone now and full with remorse because of what he has lost, his sl*t has dumped him right after I did and choose to stay with her own husband (who still doesn't know about anything) and her own kids. What comes around...

So 2016 really s*cked for me but... 2017 will be my year! I'm expecting the divorce papers from court on the 10th of January.

Thanks for thinking about me, it feels good to know you miss me. You'll understand I would like to see the Bowie movie but going abroad to do so is not the right timing I'm afraid.
 
You had rough trot.i know only to well what being married to total arse is like.First husband total shit second husband turn out be gay.2016 one worse years I ever known my best friend died so did sister in law my son going on at me to get a grip on life so starting with lazerous it not movie it surreal stage performance.
I do miss people when don't see them post for ages I always worry nothing happened to them.It was only a thought about you come see lazerous you fly into Norwich I would met you 45 min train journey to London I know you a fan like me.
Stay strong he the one who lost it all and he going know that soon I hope he not relinquish doing his bit of child care.
Good luck gal this year going be good one new start post when you can I sending my thoughts over to holland
 
Dutch Mom, you are going through a bad time right now, but things will get better. I don't know the legal situation in The Netherlands, but please take your ex-husband "through the ringers" (squish him, pinch him to the best that you can). It won't solve your problems, but it will make your situation a little better. -H.
 
I am online here regularly but in a more silent way Seagull, I do post occasionally but I'm lacking the time for long posts and reading all posts because of a nasty divorce I was drawn into since the past six months, thanks to my unfaithful husband who I have kicked out of our home last June, after being married to him for 21+ years and after having a relationship with my soon to be ex for over 28 years... Threw away my best years on a guy who appeared not to be worth it.

The three kids and the care for my special needs eldest are on me, aside from my full time job as a teacher, and I have been and am very busy dividing all our stuff, getting the mortgage on my name and taking care of all financial, practical and administrative things that need to be done. Ex is busy with his own problems and his new home, alone now and full with remorse because of what he has lost, his sl*t has dumped him right after I did and choose to stay with her own husband (who still doesn't know about anything) and her own kids. What comes around...

So 2016 really s*cked for me but... 2017 will be my year! I'm expecting the divorce papers from court on the 10th of January.

Thanks for thinking about me, it feels good to know you miss me. You'll understand I would like to see the Bowie movie but going abroad to do so is not the right timing I'm afraid.
Dutch Mom

Sorry to hear about everything you're going through at the moment.
Sending hugs to you & I hope 2017 is a better year for you & your kids.
 
Dutch Mom, you are going through a bad time right now, but things will get better. I don't know the legal situation in The Netherlands, but please take your ex-husband "through the ringers" (squish him, pinch him to the best that you can). It won't solve your problems, but it will make your situation a little better. -H.

Don't worry, I've taken care of myself and kids as well as possible, he certainly is and won't be the winner in this case. I'm being fair on him, more fair than he deserves, but I simply do have the best cards in every way.
 
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