It took us years to get a Lupus diagnoses, after finding the right Dr. to do the labwork. Since she was 10, she had swollen lymph nodes and was constantly sick. They kept doing biopsies and looking for cancer and lymphoma. Her white cells were always off the chart and physicians would always say she was fighting an infection somewhere. Yes, but for years and years?? Finally, when she developed arthritis in her hands and hips at such a young age, she finally got the attention of a pcp. It also effected her psychologically. Prior to the diagnosis, she became extremely anxious and depressed and attempted suicide. This is a kid who is normally happy, well adjusted, is a professional model, and has a somewhat normal family (haha). So, it was out of the blue. Her rheumatologist explained to us after seeing her MRI that her brain was effected due to all the years of it being untreated. She was immediately put on an aggressive treatment plan to get her immune system under control, and you're right....the meds are brutal. Everytime she would go into the heat or bright sunlight, she would vomit. She was always sick. Her meds have been adjusted since then, so she's much better, but she hates the meds. We are both photosensitive, so we enjoy our blackout curtains and air conditioning.

Through hardship, people can come together....so, we encourage each other to take our meds. I hate taking mine too, so we have a deal
I'm glad your hubby is in remission! Woohoo for him!

I wish you the best on Thursday...I'll be thinking about you.