Hello everyone!
Less than two months ago I probably have spoken only once or twice the word epilepsy in my 27 years.
Everything has changed since a meet a wonderful girl which has been through e. since she was a teenager.
She decided in the beginning of the year to focus 100% on herself, which is understandable. Meaning focusing on her medicines, on trying to overcome her epilepsy together with her doctors. That is somehow a selfish behavior, since sometimes she says nobody can help her except her doctors and herself.
But since the last two weeks (yes, only two weeks) we have been dating intensively - talking about everything and sleeping together every single day.
It has become intense, but suddenly things changed. Maybe because I mentioned how beautiful would be if (!) one day would live together and she felt that things are now a bit out of control only because I have become more important to her than her epilepsy. She is trying to throw me away of her life to focus again on herself and on overcoming her disability.
I have read many comments in different topics here and my brain is starting to think she has the right to deal with it by herself, but my heart cannot let her go. I just can't lose someone that I like a lot. Any comments on what should I do?
Thank you very much!
Less than two months ago I probably have spoken only once or twice the word epilepsy in my 27 years.
Everything has changed since a meet a wonderful girl which has been through e. since she was a teenager.
She decided in the beginning of the year to focus 100% on herself, which is understandable. Meaning focusing on her medicines, on trying to overcome her epilepsy together with her doctors. That is somehow a selfish behavior, since sometimes she says nobody can help her except her doctors and herself.
But since the last two weeks (yes, only two weeks) we have been dating intensively - talking about everything and sleeping together every single day.
It has become intense, but suddenly things changed. Maybe because I mentioned how beautiful would be if (!) one day would live together and she felt that things are now a bit out of control only because I have become more important to her than her epilepsy. She is trying to throw me away of her life to focus again on herself and on overcoming her disability.
I have read many comments in different topics here and my brain is starting to think she has the right to deal with it by herself, but my heart cannot let her go. I just can't lose someone that I like a lot. Any comments on what should I do?
Thank you very much!
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