qtowngirl,
Wow that is so amazing! What type of seizures do you have? I am not sure if surgery is an option for me as I have complex partial seizures and they do not "disrupt my life (doctor's words)" too much. They are not controlled very well with medication and although surgery sounds VERY scary the thought of being seizure free is amazing. I look forward to hearing back from you my seizure twin :hi5:.
hi sweetie

in my opinion (through both personal experience and research), a doctor doesn't tell you how much they are/aren't disrupting our lives, we tell
them. tho i've only had a few c.p.'s they've been very disruptive!
most importantly is the meds; if they're not offering proper sz control then it's time to look at going on something else - why he isn't recommending that and instead saying your life's not too bad is ridiculous.
mine are simple partials and tonic clonics; were simples for 9.5 years before having my first grand mal. tho i didn't know it was e until the 2nd grand mal and diagnosis (age 15 to 25 i was told it was 'post traumatic stress disorder').
long story short none of it really matters, tho proper diagnosis in my teens would have (likely) caused way less seizures as an adult, and possibly the root reason being found earlier... it wouldn't have changed the fact i needed surgery. like you, we had a lesion since in our mom's womb, and very more likely than not, meds won't work in that situation. tried 4 and no go.
-carbamazepine helps with t.c.'s but doesn't touch partials (which are WAY worse for me).
-topamax had me seizure-free 10 months then came back with a vengeance, was worse, and on halloween just for fun.
-lamotrigine is kind of a 'whatever' for me. i don't have any 'more' seizures than usual, but not really less either.
-vimpat (BAD) lowered my simples somewhat but not the t.c.'s, and it's side effects were way too much to take, not worth it.
i'm so glad my surgery is working, and can't suggest enough to demand proper testing. it's not a normal doctor decision to leave a lesion in, as research shows. they only don't want to touch if it's too deep and/or in a place where we'd likely be impaired for life, such as language and mental capacity.
i'm going to post a bunch of threads i found, right on our subject. to start your neuro/e team have to test further, such as a 24-hour eeg hospital stay (can range from 4 days to 3 weeks, mine was 2.5 wks). that's how they confirm whether you're a candidate or not. HUGS!