I know this is not epilepsy-related, but lately I've been trying to find positive but assertive ways to respond to well-intenioned sexist comments. I want help create positive change without sounding dramatic. It's hard!
One recent example: I sent my uncle a text message letting him know that I would be in his city for a professional event later this month, and asked whether he and his family would like to have dinner. He responded by asking why I am attending this event without my husband, as I am a "lady" and "should not be alone." (Seriously?!)
After a lot of thought, I said: "I don't see it that way. I would love to see you. Let me know if you can meet up! Thanks."
I was truly taken aback and not sure how to respond!
I'm wondering whether anyone (male or female) has any stories like this and/or has any advice on how to respond to such comments. I don't like the idea of letting it slide, I want to stand up for myself and my fellow women. But I also don't want to strain family relationships.
One recent example: I sent my uncle a text message letting him know that I would be in his city for a professional event later this month, and asked whether he and his family would like to have dinner. He responded by asking why I am attending this event without my husband, as I am a "lady" and "should not be alone." (Seriously?!)
After a lot of thought, I said: "I don't see it that way. I would love to see you. Let me know if you can meet up! Thanks."
I was truly taken aback and not sure how to respond!
I'm wondering whether anyone (male or female) has any stories like this and/or has any advice on how to respond to such comments. I don't like the idea of letting it slide, I want to stand up for myself and my fellow women. But I also don't want to strain family relationships.