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Hmmmm.... may I?
It would be more 'correct' if the comments provided were exclusive to your own personal experiences and/or fact when offering advice.
"Bottom line is, the seizure is not such a bad thing."
I personally took great offense to this, and many on here will agree, as seizures have destroyed so much of my life. Seizures scare me, have taken away my independence, put me on medication for the rest of my life, and are causing possible brain surgery.
It would be better to put "...for me the seizure is not such a bad thing."
"And when the seizure is over you actually get a good feeling."
That is your experience, not 'how' a complex partial works for everyone. To inform someone that this is what happens is untruthful, that's just what's happening for you.
..."well the side effects are nasty. You lose your memory, you live in a clouded world."
Again, this is different for everyone. I've been on three meds and have never lived in a clouded world nor found them 'nasty.' Sure there's been an adjustment period, and there is for everyone, some you can stay on some you can't, but that's just it... it's different for EVERYONE. If that's the way it's been for you it's more appropriate to say just that.
Opinions and the like are of course welcome, and I know I give my fair share of mine, but I responded to this because I really did find it offensive that you seemed to answer for everyone with epilepsy about what it's like. This is so not the case so please if you don't mind, keep your comments strictly to personal experiences or feelings. Thanks.
It would be more 'correct' if the comments provided were exclusive to your own personal experiences and/or fact when offering advice.
"Bottom line is, the seizure is not such a bad thing."
I personally took great offense to this, and many on here will agree, as seizures have destroyed so much of my life. Seizures scare me, have taken away my independence, put me on medication for the rest of my life, and are causing possible brain surgery.
It would be better to put "...for me the seizure is not such a bad thing."
"And when the seizure is over you actually get a good feeling."
That is your experience, not 'how' a complex partial works for everyone. To inform someone that this is what happens is untruthful, that's just what's happening for you.
..."well the side effects are nasty. You lose your memory, you live in a clouded world."
Again, this is different for everyone. I've been on three meds and have never lived in a clouded world nor found them 'nasty.' Sure there's been an adjustment period, and there is for everyone, some you can stay on some you can't, but that's just it... it's different for EVERYONE. If that's the way it's been for you it's more appropriate to say just that.
Opinions and the like are of course welcome, and I know I give my fair share of mine, but I responded to this because I really did find it offensive that you seemed to answer for everyone with epilepsy about what it's like. This is so not the case so please if you don't mind, keep your comments strictly to personal experiences or feelings. Thanks.