Hi MsddyMsd'sDad, welcome to CWE!
I'm sorry to hear about your daughter and her seizure disorder. There are quite a few members caring for kids with different seizure disorders. If you haven't already, you should check out The Nursery Forum here:
http://www.coping-with-epilepsy.com/forums/f42/
Does that apply to partial seizures too or just grand mals? I ask because I had way more than two in an average day and haven't got a diagnosis of epilepsy. Though the neurologists tend to be ignorant and discriminatory at this hospital (Salford Royal).
Technically, if your daughter has had more than one seizure, then the diagnosis is epilepsy (even if the primary cause is meningitis.). Regardless, I'm glad you've found us, and I hope you feel comfortable about posting and asking questions.
Best,
Nakamova