I haven't dissappeared lol

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I figured I should probably post since I haven't in quite sometimes. I got out of my bad relationship, but unfortunately he got the custody of our daughter. As for my seizures I have a neurologist appointment on June 10th and hoping I finally get some answers. The doctor I am seeing specializes in seizures so that should help. But, what should I expect? The only neurologist I saw was after the EEG so he didn't do much. Its a long time to wait so I really hope its worth it. Should I take my boyfriend with me though? Since I don't remember my seizures? He has witnessed them so he could better explain what happens during them. I am a bit nervous about it. Also found out what the problem with my heart is. I have premature heart beats. If it gets worse I have to see a cardiologist and my doctor says the main issue that could happen is my heart rhythm will change so thats kind of a scary thought. How have you guys been with your seizures. I am getting internet Friday so I will be on more often then.
 
Sounds like you've been through a lot. :( But you've at an excellent goal!

Yes, take your boyfriend to your appointment. It can help both to fill in the blanks about what's been happening, and also to have a second set of ears to remember what the doc says. Write down all the questions you have for your doc, and don't be shy about asking more questions as they arise during the appointment. Write down the answers too (or have your bf do it) -- it helps to have a written record to refer to.

Let the neurologist know about your heart condition, or any other health issues. The neuro will probably discuss medication options or changes (if you're medicated already).
 
I still haven't been medicated Nakamova I am hoping we will try something. I have been through a lot, but I keep moving forward its all I can do. I guess things aren't too bad though. Things could always be worse.
 
Congrats on escaping a bad relationships STBM! And i'm sorry to hear about the custody decision. Will you still have time with your daughter? Do you trust your ex to look after your daughter when he has her? Things can change over time too, especially once your health is under control. You could reapply for custody then if you wanted to.

That's great that you're seeing a new neuro, it's amazing what a fresh set of eyes can do. The heart condition is a bit scary but at least the docs are aware of it and being proactive.

Definitely take your BF, not only for his witness accounts but his moral support. He will also learn from the appointment which will probably make him feel more confident in how to support you.

Good to hear from you!! xxx
 
Thanks wobblez. I do plan on takin my bf so hopefully it goes well. Now if my insomnia wasn't acting up I could sleep lol but oh that's what happens when you got a lot on your mind. Hope you guys weren't too worried about me.
 
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