Denise,
Warm welcome to CWE.
"He was auditioning for the Airforce Chorus but now with this diagnosis he cannot. "
I am so sorry for your Son, can only imagine how devastating this is for him and you of course.
I so agree with Arnie, for 2nd and if needed 3rd opinion.
After 1 seizure only, and clean MRI and EEG it’s very rare to be put straight on meds. In fact, by rule epilepsy is only diagnosed after more than one seizure, my Son of 27 has had many and mainly nocturnal T/C. He has abnormal EEG = spikes so the E is visible. He is not on Kepra, but hates the meds he is on....so we do all in power to prevent increases, and yes lots of that is lifestyle, which is so hard in your 20s when u want to be out there having a good time..
These E meds can be heavy going, suggest you make a dairy, note anything out of norm, including all seizures and unrecognized/new behaviors/health concerns (not saying they will be – but no harm to keep close eye). Simple dairy on kitchen table (any kind of notebook) can be shared, used by your Son and all family can make note of anything out of norm. It will truly help you when facing doctors and it may help find triggers if another seizure occurs, which please God it will not.. If he is not at home, maybe he can ask roommates/friends to do same..
Keep us posted…