Blimey, I'm so glad to have been of help!
U r right, life was great (and is pretty good now too generally), I'd resigned from my engineering job in England and gone to live in Spain to teach English. I'd been there for 6 months (with my dog Bill) and I met my partner, we moved in together and all was good, lots of work etc.
We'd had a lovely day and settled to watch our fav. tv programme and I tried to turn to Sean and tell him I felt funny and I just started gibbering, the thoughts started racing, I thought I was having a stroke, he thought I was messing about, until I started to seize.
I don't remember anything for the next fortnight, I was diagnosed with a heart problem and took meds for a few months and then seized again. Various trips to neuros (I've had 4 now) different meds (my heart seemed to settle down thankfully) and then finally a good neuro who sent me for a Video EEG.
This is how I was diagnosed, hooked to an EEG and videoed for 5 days and slowly taken off my meds. I seized on the 5th day, they found where it was coming from and discovered a small scar which is probably the cause.
Am well medicated now, I take Zebinix and Depakine, pretty low doses but I feel good.
I still have tics and electric hands and the confusion is ever present really. All of these things moreso when tired. The interesting thing is my speech trouble usually doesn't occur in class, my neuro reckons I use a diff part of my brain when I'm working (still can't even add up then though).
I was, I think 36 when it all kicked off that night on the sofa, I'm 41 in 6 days, it's taken a long time to get sorted, u just have to persevere and find a good neuro.
Something I do have trouble with is not knowing why or how it happened, my niece, brother and father all have E too, all late onset, except my niece, she was 3. There does seem to be a familial problem. My brother was lost to SUDEP almost 2 yrs ago.
Glad u seem the nausea etc is less frequent, as for your neuro not being helpful change, get another one. I've read a few posts on diff forums and it would seem that many people have bad ones, here in Spain, doctors think they are gods and not to be questioned in any way. I was so fortunate to find a good one, and he is not a private one, they were all rubbish.
Log all the things, feelings etc so u can show the neuro, if there is anything happening, like me with tics, video it, they can't ignore those, I found my mobile phone invaluable for this.
Mobiles are also good for setting alarms to take meds. I run my little academy from the calendar on my mobile too since I can't even remember 4 things on a shopping list, and that's when I'm trying really hard.
All the best.