THank you for your replies.
This Gyn is the 3rd one I've seen, the main reason to begin with to have to see one instead of my reg doc, was because I am through menopause, and I was spotting some blood. It was possible that because of the bleeding I could have cancer. Well the first gyn I went to, it took over six months for my reg doc to get all the tests results back, (their are no gyn's here in Grafton, they do come from other counties once or 4 times a month, to see patients)
He did not want me to schedule another appt. with him, even though the problems the tests he did, showed, a bunch of cysts on my ovaries, a fibroid (not on the outside of my uterus) but in between my unterus and uterine wall, when they are like this something needs to be done about them. This is also what could be causing the bleeding.
Then what really shocked and angered me was, the test he did to check to make sure there was no cancer, he didn't get enough of what he needed to get a result and I found this out about 6 months after this test, my reg doc kept trying to get all the test results and wasn't having much luck for this amount of time. So I definetly decided that I sure as heck did not want to see him again.
Then a very close friend of mine recommended the gyn her and her mother and grandmother and sister and some friends see, I talked to a couple other woman and receive very high recomendations on him.
He is the greatest gyn I have ever seen in my life, He has been very direct and well I can't think of the right words to use, He found even more wrong, my bladder has dropped so low that it is right beside my uterus and I have damage to the inside and outerside of my vaginal wall. This explained even more the reason why I feel so much pressure like I have to go all the time and also how whenever I sneeze, cough, laugh, hiccup and more alot of the time I have to change clothes, and I didn't even feel like I had to go.
I thought I would go ahead and tell all the gyn found and why I decided that a hysterectomy as he recommended would be the best thing to do. Also I have a very high risk for ovarian cancer because I have a very high risk for breast cancer, it has went from mother to daughter for the last centry or more that I am aware of on my father's side.
I have decided that my hubby should stay home with me for at least a couple of weeks, another reason is that with it being in the dead of winter, the area we live in if there is school and our hill is to bad I would have to walk up and back down a very slick and steep hill to get my daughter on the bus, I don't think it would be to good for me to fall right after a major surgery.
Sharon, I am sorry to hear about all the losses you had to go through. I have had one, my only son was born still, in 1997.
The appt today which due to the weather I don't even know if my doc will make it to Grafton, and I will not have a way because a taxi wont' even come here in this weather, Anyway it was for him to go over with me exactly what he will be doing through the surgery. I still am not even sure if they are going to put me totally under or just numb me.
Well, I know this is getting pretty long. so again thanks for your replies and advice.
Tammy
Oh and I thought I better add I might have some of the female organs that need taken out and/or repaired mixed up, my bad memory can really confuse me sometimes. I think I got them all right.