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So I'm talking to this guy and it seems to be working out well. We're going to go out and everything and I feel like we're hitting it off. What I really want to do is ask when is it the appropriate time to tell him, or anyone I'm dating really, about my seizures? I remember from my therapist about establishing boundaries and I also feel like this is one of those things that you tell the person face to face. You don't drop the bomb via text or through a phone call. That wouldn't do for a conversation like this, I feel like you would need the face to face interaction and to be able to navigate the conversation better.
My question is: do you tell them on the first date? The second? Third? How do you do about it? And how do you artfully weave it into the conversation in the first place? I feel like it's necessary, of course, but I also don't quite know how to say it. It's part of the reason why I'm not driving (the other half legitimately, my car is really screwed up. Something is wrong with it so I'm using that as my first excuse just so I'm not coming out with it up front via text).
Caveat to this guy, I met him online and didn't really think that anything was coming of my talking to guys online but this is coming to something more fruitful than not. So, opinions, advice, etc etc, is desperately needed! Thanks so much! I feel so lost in this arena.
My question is: do you tell them on the first date? The second? Third? How do you do about it? And how do you artfully weave it into the conversation in the first place? I feel like it's necessary, of course, but I also don't quite know how to say it. It's part of the reason why I'm not driving (the other half legitimately, my car is really screwed up. Something is wrong with it so I'm using that as my first excuse just so I'm not coming out with it up front via text).
Caveat to this guy, I met him online and didn't really think that anything was coming of my talking to guys online but this is coming to something more fruitful than not. So, opinions, advice, etc etc, is desperately needed! Thanks so much! I feel so lost in this arena.