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Hi everyone.
I've just signed up as a parent of a possibly epileptic child and wanted to say " hi".
Natalie is three and had her first seizure about a month ago and quickly accelerated to three per day plus some during her sleep. Before that I had been at our doctors a couple of times because for the past 4-6 months her behavior has been hideous. The Terrible Twos had moved into the Violent Threes and now she was having tantrums all day with kicking, scratching, biting, and she was intolerable at home and at daycare because her attention span dropped down to zero. She just couldn't play anymore and spent the day roaming looking for someone to hurt. I had seen her arms twitch a couple of times and told our doctor, so when she had a really obvious seizure it was almost a relief that maybe we had a reason for all this vile behavior. She has myclonic jerks, absence seizures, tonic-clonic seizures, and atypical seizures - so many different names it gets confusing!!

Anyway, we've just spent two weeks in hospital having EEGs, Spinal taps, MRI and blood and urine work. We are awaiting results to find out if this is epilepsy or a more sinister disease at work. The doctors are checking all possibilities because of the extreme behavior. Her EEG showed generalized spikes every few seconds even when she wasn't visibly having a seizure.We are hoping that she is just exhausted from night seizures that I suspect have been happening for a while (she often wakes during the night crying or screaming) and that sleep deprivation has caused the behavior.

She has an epileptic grandfather so to me it seems likely she inherited it but the doctors want to be sure. There are a number of illnesses that cause seizures plus behavior change. I made the mistake of searching for one of the illnesses they are checking her for: Batten disease. They have tested her for that and we have 6 weeks wait to find out results. It is fatal and has freaked me out. I don't know if many people would say "I hope my kid has epilepsy" but for us we are praying that she does, because the alternatives are too frightening to even consider.
 
Hello! :hello:

Welcome to CWE.

Sorry to hear about Natalie's seizures. There are many here who understand what you all are going through. Make yourself at home here and I hope you find some support / comfort while you navigate the uncertain waters ahead.
 
Welcome. Sorry to hear about Natalie's seizures. My little boy is 33 months old and his specialists have been on the road to trying to work out what is happening with him since he was 7 1/2 months old, but I am sure his issues started way before then and we were just told he had reflux. When I first told the GP about his arm tremors, I was told both my little boy and I were exhausted after very little sleep for 3 weeks due to him having reoccurring brochiolitis. But then thankfully he had a seizure in my appointment with my GP and I burst into tears, I think she thought it was out of worry and I said to her no someone believes me now. My little boy also has a repertoire of seizures and is now on meds. He has had so many tests yet nothing clearly says what is going on. They did find a lesion on his Putamen, deep in his brain but they are not 100% sure what it is or if it is the reason he is like he is. Believe me I totally get it when you say you are "hoping" she has Epilepsy as some of the other things I don't want to even think about. My little boy had Metabolic tests done and I know how long the wait is for them, some of his took a couple of months.
I hope you get Natalie's results back soon and it is something which they help her get back to being Natalie soon.
 
You must be feeling very stressed. Have a toddler is tough but having one going through such dramatic changes must be very difficult. I hope you get good news from the doctors.
 
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