I just move - less than 48 hours ago to be exact. My sister, with whom I've made it quite clear I want no contact with, found out about it. (throughout the past year she has been calling me for no other reason than to tell me I need to stop having seizures or am lying about medicaid/ss requirements because the information she made up out of the blue sounds better to her than any of the legal documents I've had to sign)
Two nights ago she called and left this long message about how i need to get in touch with her and she'll help me find an apartment - that I know is a lie, and just an attempt to get me on the phone so she can yell at me for having seizures as I've been through that with her dozens of times last year, and never once did any idea of help enter into the conversation. Since that didn't work, she waited until 11 at night, then began calling all my friends she has access to, telling them there was information on facebook indicating I died and wanting them to tell here where I was at - thankfully I haven't given anyone my new address yet, or she would have been here harassing my roommates since I'm now in the same city as she is, just a different side of it.
It just really irks me that if I want to have any semblance of a normal life I'm going to have to live several hours away from everyone I currently know and the people i need to have semi-close by if i get sick like before again. I used to be an hour and a half away from here (and 3 hours from everyone else) and she still found a way to cause trouble with my friends and even attempted to get me fired from work - luckily for me I lied about which restaurant I worked at to her, and the one she went to cause problems at had a different owner (same chain though). She began dating a guy from the town I had moved to, and took that as her go ahead to cause trouble with every mutual connection between the two of us that she could find. I think I should be allowed to live by my friends without having to worry about someone showing up on my doorstep for no other purpose than to cause riffs in between us.
Two nights ago she called and left this long message about how i need to get in touch with her and she'll help me find an apartment - that I know is a lie, and just an attempt to get me on the phone so she can yell at me for having seizures as I've been through that with her dozens of times last year, and never once did any idea of help enter into the conversation. Since that didn't work, she waited until 11 at night, then began calling all my friends she has access to, telling them there was information on facebook indicating I died and wanting them to tell here where I was at - thankfully I haven't given anyone my new address yet, or she would have been here harassing my roommates since I'm now in the same city as she is, just a different side of it.
It just really irks me that if I want to have any semblance of a normal life I'm going to have to live several hours away from everyone I currently know and the people i need to have semi-close by if i get sick like before again. I used to be an hour and a half away from here (and 3 hours from everyone else) and she still found a way to cause trouble with my friends and even attempted to get me fired from work - luckily for me I lied about which restaurant I worked at to her, and the one she went to cause problems at had a different owner (same chain though). She began dating a guy from the town I had moved to, and took that as her go ahead to cause trouble with every mutual connection between the two of us that she could find. I think I should be allowed to live by my friends without having to worry about someone showing up on my doorstep for no other purpose than to cause riffs in between us.
