It's been a really, really bad week. Ever since the college year started I've started getting more and more seizures. I have TLE and have been experiencing simple partial and absence seizures regularly.
I'm in culinary and it's physically demanding and I love it but the seizures have slowed me down. I cant move around as quickly as everyone else and my memory can be terrible. Some days I'm good but others days it's a living nightmare. There have been rumours circulating and people talking behind my back that I'm just a moron and don't belong in the program (I can proudly say I'm above average grade wise but Im still feeling the sting). Even my instructors express their doubts.
Only my close friend knows that I have epilepsy, no other students or instructors know. Some would call that dumb given the environment I'm in but most people I tell treat me like I'm contagious or like I'm impaired. If I don't tell them they think negative things anyways. Its a no win situation.
It wouldn't bother me what they think except they manage to push me around the kitchen and give me all the grunt work and I'm so exhausted that Ive stopped standing up for myself. I've been laughed at and mocked. i'm so exhausted. i can't stand being at school right now. It's started to make me angry and hate myself. I got into a fight with one of my instructors about my lack of enthusiasm in the kitchen. I had to walk away that day because I felt like I'd lash out at the simplest of things.
I'm at the point where I can't cope. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. And for the first time I'm really starting to feel alone. They don't understand how it feels.
I'm in culinary and it's physically demanding and I love it but the seizures have slowed me down. I cant move around as quickly as everyone else and my memory can be terrible. Some days I'm good but others days it's a living nightmare. There have been rumours circulating and people talking behind my back that I'm just a moron and don't belong in the program (I can proudly say I'm above average grade wise but Im still feeling the sting). Even my instructors express their doubts.
Only my close friend knows that I have epilepsy, no other students or instructors know. Some would call that dumb given the environment I'm in but most people I tell treat me like I'm contagious or like I'm impaired. If I don't tell them they think negative things anyways. Its a no win situation.
It wouldn't bother me what they think except they manage to push me around the kitchen and give me all the grunt work and I'm so exhausted that Ive stopped standing up for myself. I've been laughed at and mocked. i'm so exhausted. i can't stand being at school right now. It's started to make me angry and hate myself. I got into a fight with one of my instructors about my lack of enthusiasm in the kitchen. I had to walk away that day because I felt like I'd lash out at the simplest of things.
I'm at the point where I can't cope. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. And for the first time I'm really starting to feel alone. They don't understand how it feels.