I have been married to my wife for 14 years now. She has had epilepsy before we got married. At first i was able to manage her seizures pretty well. I was able to accept and understand her condition. She was allowed to drive but very limited like side roads and not far distances. But i myself was too afraid of her driving so i considered myself the primary driver. Driving her to places she needs to be didnt really bother me. But there were times when i was having a bad day and just wanted to stay home. this ended up in big arguments. And now in the present time, she still has seizures but now with 2 young kids. I am just overwhelmed with the driving as i now have to drive 3 people around, specially to their appointments. Because of this also affects my leave at work as i am the only worker in the family. For years i have been constantly afraid of being with her in public, specially with 2 young kids, i wouldnt know what to do if she had a seizure in public and take care of 2 crying kids. Recently i am just stressed out from alot of things happening in life and also managing her seizures and the kids at the same time. I have to compensate for alot of her shortcomings because of her seizures. And this has caused us to argue alot more. I would get home from work dead tired and i see my wife on the floor because she feels an oncoming seizure. So this means i have to do everything in the house. She said she is tired of arguing about the same thing over and over again the whole time we were married. We argued about nothing else but my constant fear, stress and her seizures. Now she is considering divorce. I know it will be difficult for the kids. But how can i cope with the constantly being afraid of an on coming seizure (specially in public). how can i cope with being the only driver and only worker in the family trying to balance finances, leave and their appointments or taking them wherever they need to go with no other family members to help me out. I try my best to hide my true feelings of anger and stress just so we wont argue. I always have to say YES to her just so she wont feel emotionally stressed and wont have a seizure. Please help me.