This sounds very familiar.
I was diagnosed along with my twin sis Danielle at age 6 with petit mal or possible complex partial seizures. Nothing was found on EEG at the time but neuro was sure of the diagnoses otherwise. Mom refused treatment due to the fear of meds. We were born three months premature and had a very traumatic birth.
Heart surgery are 4hrs old, no anastethia besides local where the surgery was. Under developed everything including CNS obviously and dying and in total cardiac arrest with resusitation. Was oxygen dependant for three or four months while in NICU.
Dani and I made it but we did have some troubles from it.
All of our doctors tell us that many of our problems, including blindness, deafness (residual left) joint and muscle problems (similar to CP) and Epilepsy are most likely caused from premature birth. You don't come out perfect when you're three months too early in the 80s.
Now-a-days you can be three or four pounds and have a great chance of being okay.
I weighed only 1lb 10oz..
My Mom was in denial of our seizures since they "aren't bad enough for meds" as they as shorter 45sec Complex Partials. So she thought we would outgrow them naturally and not really need treatment. Later on, we found out from a good neurologist that because Mom didn't get treatment until we were older (13) that our seizures will be harder to treat. I can't really be too upset with her since she was still a young adult and research and info wasn't so available as it is now with internet etc.
I wish we would have recieved treatment at an early age but my seizures got worse over time as did my hearing and vision. So now they are 45sec-3min seizures and I take Lamictal XR and Keppra XR.
Mom and my Mom's friend both would send us a few articles here at there. They were personal stories of people with Epilepsy and how they overcame things. It was nice to read those stories but I felt like they were doing it because they felt sorry for us.
The same thing would happen reguarding our vision/hearing impairment- almost like they were trying to make us feel better about things by reading others' stories. I appreciated knowing that others are dealing with similar issues but I always felt "well you aren't doing so well so read these" type feelings. I don't know if it makes sense or not- but I felt that Mom and her friends were constantly talking about it or thinking about it feeling sorry for us and wondering how we would make it in life.
I am an accomplished musician of 20 years with my twin Sis and no matter what our disabilities are like, we continue to do what we love and we surely don't emphasize our disabilities to the public or our audiences. We want people to see us for us, not as twins with vision/hearing impairment and epilepsy.
We were on the front page of the Austin American Stateman in May 2001 I beleive and they used our disabilities to make it almost a pitty story and I just didn't like it at all. It talked about our music and our abilities and our two CDs we have out- which is awesome to be able to share with people- but the "have pitty" part wasn't my favorit at all.
They even described a seizure I had while in a lesson in Orientation and Mobility for the blind- outside downtown learning how to travel independantly in high school.
Why oh why would you write about a seizure someone had- especially soomeone that is on the front page of the capitol of Texas' main newspaper!
If you care to have a listen, go to Youtube.com and search for channel names:
MsMotif6 (me)
thesynthfreq (Sis)
So both of you take care and be safe.
Crystal and her guide Umbro.