Hi There
Sounds like you are in desperate need of some sound advice. I hate it when all the neighbours friends family and relatives chip in, and none of them have the foggiest idea what they are talking about!! I'm not an expert, but I've had epilepsy for twenty five years, had brain surgery twice, studied epilepsy for four years, and have almost finished my book on living with epilepsy, so I'll try and help, I'm almost just about seizure free, and my goal in life is to help raise awareness of this misunderstood condition, and make people round the world realise, that we are as capable and intelligent as anyone alse, we do not want to be picked out from society, and we are merely people with epilepsy, so what?!
I'm assuming that your hubby has had an EEG, that would pick up epileptic activity within the brain, and then at the end of the test, he will have a strobe light shone into his eyes, and that would determine if he was photsensitive or not (prone to seizures with flickering lights or strong vivid patterns, flashing lights etc) only 3-5% of PWE people with epilepsy are photosensitive. It can be hereditary, and 75% of people who are photosensitive will have epilepsy for life.
People don't realise that there are a variety of causes for epilepsy, and people can have seizures without them being epileptic seizures. Cryptogenic seizures are when a cause is never discovered, Idiopathic seizures are when there is a genetic/hereditary connection, and Symptomatic seizures (as with me) is when a cause is found for their epilepsy. An MRI scan is usually performed to see if there are any structural surface problems that could cause the seizures, CT and CAT scans again take a cross section look at the brain again for underlying problems and causes of seizure activity.
Some people can actually have a couple of seizures and never have another one, and of course seizures can accompany a variety of other more complex medical conditions such as Autism, Downs Syndrome, Alzheimers, and a Stroke, also head injury etc can trigger a seizure. I was a forceps delivery which caused a lesion on my right temporal lobe, the area just above my right ear, it wasn't triggered until stress from my parents splitting up, stress is big contributor to the onset of epilepsy. Epilepsy is defined as a "physical disease" and cannot be cured, but you can as I said, have one seizure and never another one, we are all so different and the brain so very very complex. By the way, don't refer to him as "an epileptic" will you, it is a disgusting label and one that we here in the UK are striving to wipe out, it is not used by the medical profession here anymore thank God!!! You sure won't help your man by labelling him at this early stage. If the seizures are recurring, the investigations should continue and he should be, if not already prescribed a good anti-convulsant. I am lucky to be under one of the most eminent professors of neurology in the UK, and he has helped me with my book and my studies, and I have learnt so much from him.
I wish you all the luck in discovering a way of controlling the seizures if indeed they are epileptic seizures, if they are, make sure he keeps his head up high, it is nothing to be ashamed of, and just make sure you are all there for him, I'd just advise him to find out as much as he can about his condition, and you'll get great support from the folks on here. I've a wealth of information here, and would be only too pleased to help out if you need any more info ok?
Best Regards
Lainey