So, my husband have been good friends with this other guy and lately, he hasn't been making some good decisions about the types of crowds he is deciding to hang around or the friendships he's picking up. We haven't talked to him as much as we've been able to because of illness and he's been busy, and perhaps at times not responding to us as much as he used to as we disagree with his lifestyle choices at this time. While we're still friends, after talking to him recently, we learned that after he did something he told himself he'd never do, he had a seizure right then not but a few weeks ago, around his birthday. He told me he had a seizure many years ago when he was much younger, but it never happened again and I was glad for him that it seemed to be a one-time thing and wasn't a major factor in his life. We offered him the name of a good neurologist if he needs it, but he doesn't seem to keen about seeking help at this point. Of course that means his driving license might be in jeopardy and he might not be able to get to work and such so I wonder if that's a core motive. If he had one when he was younger, and he had one again, I'm thinking there could be a definite trigger that's not so often occurring, but my fear is if these start picking up speed and he starts having them more frequently (so hoping this isn't the case for him).
It's kind of hard, though, to sit around and not listen to us so much and not take this as seriously as maybe he perhaps should? I don't know, I just worry about him getting into a potential worse situation if he's not willing to get this addressed.
It's kind of hard, though, to sit around and not listen to us so much and not take this as seriously as maybe he perhaps should? I don't know, I just worry about him getting into a potential worse situation if he's not willing to get this addressed.