My ex partner brought my 4 1/2 yr old son back from his visit today and said he had a 4 min period of " blankness" in his kitchen,where he laid on the floor,would not respond to his name,when he picked him up he was totally stiff.I have Epilepsy,My nan has Epilepsy,there's a high possibility that my 10 yr old daughter has Epilepsy (diagnosed at 5,then "undiagnosed" again,on the basis that a 20 min EEG at 10 did not pick up a sseizure-what ever!)this is almost the same age that concerns were first brought up about my daughter,it really couldn't happen AGAIN could it?? he seems fine,but has fallen asleep MUCH earlier than usual tonight...tiredness after seizure perhaps....I cant get him to doctor til tomorrow mornign,do I now INSIST upon tests for him,when they already think i'm a neurotic mother? (I would also like to add that I do have another son that there is NO such health concerns with,and both my daughter and the son that I'm worried about have other problems,i.e learning difficulties,ASD and hypermobility syndrome,which my middle son is not affected by any of these problems,so I don't think I'm being neurotic) Could God be that cruel? Don't they have enough to cope with?AM I just being nerotic wanting testing done,if only to rule it out now??!!