Rae1889
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I know this room is supposed to be for cheering up when you need it about E, But I need some cheering up. I tried to look at everything all happy happy today, but I can't...
Me and Chad have become legal gaurdians for my sisters 17 year old friend. She just turned 17 in November. As of Monday, she will be living with us in our second bedroom like a part of our family.
I got a call from her (Kaitlyn) last night at about 10:30. She had run away from home *FINALLY!* and needed a place to stay. I sent her to her friends place for the night, as we werent set up for her yet. Her mum had gone nutso on her and burned her grad dress. Because she didnt wanna hand over her paycheque to her mum.
She has been financially, emotionally, mentally and non-physically abused. *wont mention anything else*. this poor girl has no life. Her living conditions are deplorable *mold and animal waste and her mum's shady shady roomates.* she must forfeit her money to her mother to "pay rent and a cell phone" but usually gives her $600 a month for it. thats more than what me and chad pay for rent in a 2 bedroom apartment.
She gets picked on and called names. her brother is treated like a prince. and she gets chores and a curfew (like any other kid, but hers includes doing her mothers work paperwork, and cleaning the oven and walls and floors, and her curfew is 8-9pm for 17) she is told to stay in her room after nine because her mum needs to sleep for her night shift. she gets yelled at if she needs to leave to pee or get a drink of water.
Her mother refuses to buy her clothing. Yet she has no money to do it herself because her mum takes it. So she is forced to wear her older brothers clothes which are much to big for her. (she's 5'5 and about 125lb. he is 6' and 180lb) boxers and all.
and the worst is that she has a noticeable tumor in the middle of her forehead right above her nose that is growing. she doesnt know if it is cancerous or not because her mum wont take her in or pay for the biopsy or surgery to remove it. even if its benign. She hasnt been to a dentist or doctor in years. She wasnt even allowed to go into the fridge without asking her mother or brother for the key. (they say they locked it from the room mates who have their own fridge. But dont give her a key)
She is shy and meek and really beautiful. she called crying while I heard in the background her mother was burning her grad dress. There is lots more that I can't say on here as its inappropriate, but whatever you can speculate or think of, she has probably been through
She gets paid tomorrow, so for the first time ever she is going to be able to buy herself new clothes and shoes and get her hair and nails done *i'm paying for that* and do what she wants.
She's moving in and I have to tell her about my seizures and what to do and not be scared etc and im nervous. she's been through so much and I dont want to scare her but she literally has nobody else. nobody.
Me and Chad have become legal gaurdians for my sisters 17 year old friend. She just turned 17 in November. As of Monday, she will be living with us in our second bedroom like a part of our family.
I got a call from her (Kaitlyn) last night at about 10:30. She had run away from home *FINALLY!* and needed a place to stay. I sent her to her friends place for the night, as we werent set up for her yet. Her mum had gone nutso on her and burned her grad dress. Because she didnt wanna hand over her paycheque to her mum.
She has been financially, emotionally, mentally and non-physically abused. *wont mention anything else*. this poor girl has no life. Her living conditions are deplorable *mold and animal waste and her mum's shady shady roomates.* she must forfeit her money to her mother to "pay rent and a cell phone" but usually gives her $600 a month for it. thats more than what me and chad pay for rent in a 2 bedroom apartment.
She gets picked on and called names. her brother is treated like a prince. and she gets chores and a curfew (like any other kid, but hers includes doing her mothers work paperwork, and cleaning the oven and walls and floors, and her curfew is 8-9pm for 17) she is told to stay in her room after nine because her mum needs to sleep for her night shift. she gets yelled at if she needs to leave to pee or get a drink of water.
Her mother refuses to buy her clothing. Yet she has no money to do it herself because her mum takes it. So she is forced to wear her older brothers clothes which are much to big for her. (she's 5'5 and about 125lb. he is 6' and 180lb) boxers and all.
and the worst is that she has a noticeable tumor in the middle of her forehead right above her nose that is growing. she doesnt know if it is cancerous or not because her mum wont take her in or pay for the biopsy or surgery to remove it. even if its benign. She hasnt been to a dentist or doctor in years. She wasnt even allowed to go into the fridge without asking her mother or brother for the key. (they say they locked it from the room mates who have their own fridge. But dont give her a key)
She is shy and meek and really beautiful. she called crying while I heard in the background her mother was burning her grad dress. There is lots more that I can't say on here as its inappropriate, but whatever you can speculate or think of, she has probably been through
She gets paid tomorrow, so for the first time ever she is going to be able to buy herself new clothes and shoes and get her hair and nails done *i'm paying for that* and do what she wants.
She's moving in and I have to tell her about my seizures and what to do and not be scared etc and im nervous. she's been through so much and I dont want to scare her but she literally has nobody else. nobody.
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