Seizure during my math final :(

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Hello everyone :)

Yesterday I had my math final which I did horribly on! :( Anyways, I had a seizure during it. I knew it was going to happen just because I have been stressful all week! Ugh. During the final I had 3 auras...2 of them were not followed by a seizure. But when I did have a seizure, I dropped my test, pencil and calculator on the floor. I am really hoping that no one noticed what really happened. I picked up my things casually, making it look like I dropped it on accident... Ohh Janellie... Any of you guys ever had a seizure during class? I feel better now today. No auras yet. Hopefully today is a seizure free day!! :)

Janellie
 
Almost failed out of high school because I was having so many partials. They just thought I was inattentive. When the teachers found out about the epilepsy, they passed me.
 
Math is hard enough without a seizure dropping by. Does the teacher know you have epilepsy? It wouldn't hurt to ask about a redo or extra time while taking the exam.
 
Math is hard enough without a seizure dropping by. Does the teacher know you have epilepsy? It wouldn't hurt to ask about a redo or extra time while taking the exam.

Nakamova,

I wouldn't feel comfortable asking him that. My math teacher doesn't know about it. I don't like to tell my teachers about it because I HATE being treated differently. If I have seizures, I don't think I should be treated any different than the person sitting next to me- I believe I shouldn't get a redo or extra time, but that's me. I am stubborn!! Ahhhh! :eek: I know you are just trying to help, so thank you :) Have a wonderful day!

Hugs,
Janellie :)
 
Almost failed out of high school because I was having so many partials. They just thought I was inattentive. When the teachers found out about the epilepsy, they passed me.

N Sperlo,

Wow that's terrible!! (the partials that interrupted your school work). My partials have also bothered me during school, but not too bad. Maybe it was good they found out about your epilepsy?

Janellie
 
Well, my mother worked at my school. It was a private all boy school and it was how we afforded it.

Anyway, she was sure to get me a new in-shool counselor and they made it very private. The teachers all knew, but also knew it was my business to tell people about it if I wanted to. Honestly, they didn't treat me any different during class. I guess its all in the quality of teacher. They were all great teachers and for that I'm thankful. I'm a pretty smart guy, I think at least, but what they did really ended up helping in the long run.

I'm glad the teachers knew.
 
I never had seizures waaaaay back when I was in college, but I have had quite a few at work and in other public places, but they are smallish partials so people don't notice them much. Some of the people I have asked if they noticed anything, and one of them said it just looked like I was thinking about something. Another person thought I was chewing gum. As for dropping things, though, just the other night I was in a performance at a reader's theater production of A Christmas Carol. I was sitting down and not reading, but suddenly my book fell off my lap and I had quite a good sized partial. One of the other cast members saw it all and had some experience with what seizures looked like, so she knew exactly what it was. The person next to me noticed, too, and knew something was wrong. I apparently had kind of a hard time picking the book up, according to them. I recovered quickly enough to be able to continue when I had to read again. The following night at the performance I had a small one when I was actually at the microphone, but I think only one of the other members noticed it. I didn't drop anything, and I only added a word or two to my lines, which made sense in the context, fortunately! Public seizures aren't a lot of fun. I hope you did well on your finals!
 
So sorry! My daughter just started having seizures and has had 4 TCs at school. She is so embarrassed, I believe she will be taking all finals alone next week and will not e returning to school after the break- she wants to do virtual schooling. She's 15 years old and I think the worst thing for her seems to be having seizures in front of classmates.
 
Well, my mother worked at my school. It was a private all boy school and it was how we afforded it.

Anyway, she was sure to get me a new in-shool counselor and they made it very private. The teachers all knew, but also knew it was my business to tell people about it if I wanted to. Honestly, they didn't treat me any different during class. I guess its all in the quality of teacher. They were all great teachers and for that I'm thankful. I'm a pretty smart guy, I think at least, but what they did really ended up helping in the long run.

I'm glad the teachers knew.

N Sperlo,

Hmm, now I am thinking I should tell my new teachers this next semester... that might be helpful. I guess I am afraid of being judged :( The stares that people give me crush my self esteem. But I just have to embrace my epilepsy, because life goes on.

Hugs,
Janellie :)
 
I never had seizures waaaaay back when I was in college, but I have had quite a few at work and in other public places, but they are smallish partials so people don't notice them much. Some of the people I have asked if they noticed anything, and one of them said it just looked like I was thinking about something. Another person thought I was chewing gum. As for dropping things, though, just the other night I was in a performance at a reader's theater production of A Christmas Carol. I was sitting down and not reading, but suddenly my book fell off my lap and I had quite a good sized partial. One of the other cast members saw it all and had some experience with what seizures looked like, so she knew exactly what it was. The person next to me noticed, too, and knew something was wrong. I apparently had kind of a hard time picking the book up, according to them. I recovered quickly enough to be able to continue when I had to read again. The following night at the performance I had a small one when I was actually at the microphone, but I think only one of the other members noticed it. I didn't drop anything, and I only added a word or two to my lines, which made sense in the context, fortunately! Public seizures aren't a lot of fun. I hope you did well on your finals!

arnie,

I know exactly what you mean! Like a few people noticing that something isn't right about whats happening to you and other people don't even think anything of it. As for dropping things...I usually drop things and sometimes I even fall out of no where, like my legs don't want to work. I dropped my test and my calculator, but I am glad I was sitting down at least, phewww :) I get my partial seizures when I am really nervous or anxious. I just need to calm down!! Sorry about the partial when you were at the microphone- I swear I would have ran away after it happened. I am just afraid of being different. I know being different is good. But its just frustrating. And I did pretty good on my finals :)... minus the math final. Have a wonderful day!!

Hugs,
Janellie :)
 
So sorry! My daughter just started having seizures and has had 4 TCs at school. She is so embarrassed, I believe she will be taking all finals alone next week and will not e returning to school after the break- she wants to do virtual schooling. She's 15 years old and I think the worst thing for her seems to be having seizures in front of classmates.

Auctions,

Oh my gosh!!! I feel the same way! I hate having seizures at school because everyone judges- its highschool for heaven sakes! But it'll all get better :) I remember when I was having seizures at school, I thought, I cant be here. I want to do school online. I hate this. I hate this!! I hated epilepsy and I hated myself so much. But your friends can be there for you. That is what friends are for :) The other day I was with some friends at my university's volleyball game... I had a seizure and fell to the floor. One of my friends was quickly by my side and helped me up. It was so embarrassing, but when your friends are there to comfort you and to help- the feeling is just amazing. If she tells a close group of friends at school, they can be there for her, to listen to her when she needs talking to, and to laugh it off sometimes. I think that your daughter shouldn't do school online. But that's just my opinion. I know exactly what she is going through- she just wants to hide from the world because of her epilepsy- that's what I did and I missed out on so much things. My advice to her is to not let epilepsy control her life. You are in charge. She is young and she is beautiful :) Have a wonderful day! Hug your daughter for me :)

Janellie
 
I know I have said this in other threads, but I think it's appropriate here as well. I'm very glad that although I was "only" 23 years old, I was already an independent adult, married, and a father when I had my first witnessed seizure. I think that helped me to never really feel embarrassed by my seizure activity and to just take it in stride, for the most part. I would love to be able to share that mindset with those of you who are having more difficulty with the epilepsy. As with many things in life, I think our attitude to our epilepsy will do a lot to shape how other people feel about it. I like analogies, so here's one from my life: I happen to be bald, and I don't mind it a bit so I don't try to hide it at all, and as far as I know no one really cares about my baldness. If they do, oh well. On the other hand, if I tried to hide it by wearing a toupee or doing a combover (bleccch!), the baldness would really become an issue.
I like what Janellie said, and I would encourage your daughter to consider remaining in a regular school so the epilepsy doesn't start controlling her life. Maybe you can have her read these posts and even participate in this forum herself, so she can see that there is truly a normal life, even with epilepsy.
 
So sorry! My daughter just started having seizures and has had 4 TCs at school. She is so embarrassed, I believe she will be taking all finals alone next week and will not e returning to school after the break- she wants to do virtual schooling. She's 15 years old and I think the worst thing for her seems to be having seizures in front of classmates.

Auctions,

arnie is right!! She should be involved in this forum :) It made me feel so welcomed and made me understand that there were others out there like me :)
 
When I was redoing my degree at uni a few years ago, I had to retake about 90% of my exams through either having a seizure during, or missing it entirely by having one earlier :S

Thing is, they bent over backwards to help me as much as possible; I got to take it a nice informal room with just an invigillator, and was allowed upto an extra hour in exam-time breaks'. When I was unlucky to miss an exam and the retake, I got the pass based on my good assignment grades (at the chancellor's discretion).

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I agree with Nak on this- it can actually be very useful to let people in charge know what's going on, instead of trying to hide it away ;)
 
Hi Janellie8,

Though I was diagnosed at 11, my seizures REALLY kicked in during my junior year of high school. I'm sure only this group will understand how difficult that was- where my strengths used to be languages and math, those parts of my brain were changing and not capable of doing what they previously had. My memory was awful, and it made my last two years of high school super tough academically. In retrospect, I wish I would have told my teachers about it. It's not that I wanted or needed extra attention, but it might have helped them to understand certain limitations of mine at the time (which, by the way, does NOT mean your current limitations will always be limitations for you!) I struggled so much in ways I might not have needed to had I just admitted to myself and to others that my needs as a student were now different. It didn't mean I wasn't as smart or as talented, but the way I learned was now extremely different than it had been just months before. And they had no way of knowing this.

For example, my senior year French teacher was new to the school and didn't know my previous handle on the language. It was a small class (probably 5 of us?) and every day, she'd asked me what we had reviewed/talked about the day before. I could NEVER tell her because I could never remember. Seriously, I drew a blank, you would have thought I hadn't even attended class. She, understandable so, took this to mean that I wasn't paying attention, and was just being a negligent student. At the end of the year, she told me, one on one, that I was a difficult student. (I'm the furthest thing from a difficult student). This was painful and haunts me to this day (and I'm 31 now). I wish I had told her what I was dealing with - it's not that I wanted different treatment, but she might have been able to understand where my performance limitations were, and maybe even help me through it.

Not to discourage you, but there will be some folks, even teachers, who don't understand. It even took my parents some time to fully understand what my seizures meant to my cognition (and they're both medical doctors!) The morning of the SAT IIs (science, I think?), I had a seizure. I couldn't even remember my own name, but I'm pretty sure they thought I was faking it and made me go. I remember eventually walking out of the test because I had no. clue. what I was doing. I barely knew how to fill in the damn bubbles. Luckily that test wasn't an important one for me ;)

Super duper long story short, I guess what I'm trying to get at is, if you're dealing with something that's affecting your performance in school, it's much better to let your teachers and loved ones know because, in the long run, you want your grades to reflect your talents. It may not change anything at all, but it just might. If they're able to help you get those grades by adjusting small things for you, you should welcome that, and please don't feel different or guilty about it.

Best,
Sarah
 
When I was redoing my degree at uni a few years ago, I had to retake about 90% of my exams through either having a seizure during, or missing it entirely by having one earlier :S

Thing is, they bent over backwards to help me as much as possible; I got to take it a nice informal room with just an invigillator, and was allowed upto an extra hour in exam-time breaks'. When I was unlucky to miss an exam and the retake, I got the pass based on my good assignment grades (at the chancellor's discretion).

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I agree with Nak on this- it can actually be very useful to let people in charge know what's going on, instead of trying to hide it away ;)

SlimBlue,

Wow that is amazing how they helped you like that. So much support from different people. Like I said earlier, I am stubborn and think I can do this on my own. But from your experience, help from others is good! I just need to see other people as helpful and not judgmental. I know it probably wasn't fun re-taking all those tests, but I am glad they understood you and you were able to re-take your exams! :clap: Best of luck to you!

Hugs,
Janellie :)
 
Hi Janellie8,

Though I was diagnosed at 11, my seizures REALLY kicked in during my junior year of high school. I'm sure only this group will understand how difficult that was- where my strengths used to be languages and math, those parts of my brain were changing and not capable of doing what they previously had. My memory was awful, and it made my last two years of high school super tough academically. In retrospect, I wish I would have told my teachers about it. It's not that I wanted or needed extra attention, but it might have helped them to understand certain limitations of mine at the time (which, by the way, does NOT mean your current limitations will always be limitations for you!) I struggled so much in ways I might not have needed to had I just admitted to myself and to others that my needs as a student were now different. It didn't mean I wasn't as smart or as talented, but the way I learned was now extremely different than it had been just months before. And they had no way of knowing this.

For example, my senior year French teacher was new to the school and didn't know my previous handle on the language. It was a small class (probably 5 of us?) and every day, she'd asked me what we had reviewed/talked about the day before. I could NEVER tell her because I could never remember. Seriously, I drew a blank, you would have thought I hadn't even attended class. She, understandable so, took this to mean that I wasn't paying attention, and was just being a negligent student. At the end of the year, she told me, one on one, that I was a difficult student. (I'm the furthest thing from a difficult student). This was painful and haunts me to this day (and I'm 31 now). I wish I had told her what I was dealing with - it's not that I wanted different treatment, but she might have been able to understand where my performance limitations were, and maybe even help me through it.

Not to discourage you, but there will be some folks, even teachers, who don't understand. It even took my parents some time to fully understand what my seizures meant to my cognition (and they're both medical doctors!) The morning of the SAT IIs (science, I think?), I had a seizure. I couldn't even remember my own name, but I'm pretty sure they thought I was faking it and made me go. I remember eventually walking out of the test because I had no. clue. what I was doing. I barely knew how to fill in the damn bubbles. Luckily that test wasn't an important one for me ;)

Super duper long story short, I guess what I'm trying to get at is, if you're dealing with something that's affecting your performance in school, it's much better to let your teachers and loved ones know because, in the long run, you want your grades to reflect your talents. It may not change anything at all, but it just might. If they're able to help you get those grades by adjusting small things for you, you should welcome that, and please don't feel different or guilty about it.

Best,
Sarah

Sarah,

With your experience I have realized even more that it is important to let our teachers know what's going on with us. Teachers are there to help us right? Might as well let them know about it. I'm terribly sorry that your performance in school declined, but I am sure you pushed through it- you sound like a strong person :) Thank you for sharing!

Hugs,
Janellie :)
 
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