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I am new to being a mom of a child with seizures. So I have a question and hopefully you guys may have a few suggestions for me. Since my son has been on Trileptal, and has recently started working in Keppra, he has had moments of outburst and at times is a little more hyperactive.. okay alot more. Before the seizures started he was a very calm, independent mild mannered child. We are currently working on finding the right dosage that will keep the seizures at bay but yet minimize the side effects too. That being said... He had an appointment with a pediatric ophthalmologist yesterday. While at the appointment my son was very hyperactive. When I mentioned to the Dr. to please excuse my sons behavior (not saying to dismiss it but rather to understand) that he is normally not like this and then proceed to comment that due to the medicine he has been having increasing moments like this. The doctor then said to me "you know, that is just an excuse. He could be a good child if he wanted too" Needless to say I told him that unless he is in direct contact with my child's neurologist and knows his complete medical history that he should not make comments like that. Then I took my child and left. Thankfully the appointment was just about over. I called his pediatrician, which referred us to him, and told her what happened. I was very upset. I get that all kids at some point in time act out. But I also know my son and know that this is not him. I know when its normal 5 year old acting up and when its not. Not only that but his neurologist is attributing it to the meds, but he would like to give it another couple weeks and see what happens. It just frustrates me to no end when people make comments like that without knowing the full story. I just want to break down and cry at times! It's hard enough as it is. I don't need some jack wagons adding to the stress. He does get reprimanded for his behavior, meds or no meds, because he needs to know either way it is not appropriate. I guess I am just looking for suggestions on how to better handle situations like that until we get everything under control. This has seemed to happen a few times in different situations. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated 
