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Hi Ginger, I don't think anyone posted it but it sounds like he is going through postical phychosis (my biggest fear). It can take a few hour, to days or weeks to surface following a TC seizure. It developes in people with longterm uncontrolled epilespy.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2265810/

:agree: And here is more info about the subject:

http://www.epilepsy.com/epilepsy/neurobehav_inter_prob
http://www.epilepsy.com/epilepsy/interprob_psycho

Treating Psychosis

Psychosis is treated primarily with dopamine receptor blockers, i.e., the conventional (e.g., chlorpromazine, haloperidol) and atypical (e.g., risperidone, olanzapine, quetiapine) antipsychotic (neuroleptic) drugs. Antipsychotic drugs are also divided into “low-potency” (e.g., chlorpromazine, thioridazine) and “high-potency” (e.g., fluphenazine, haloperidol) groups. Potency is determined mainly by therapeutic dosages and D2 receptor affinities. Among the conventional antipsychotic drugs, high-potency agents are less sedating, hypotensive, and anticholinergic (drugs that block the cholinergic neurotransmitter system) but have more acute motor side effects.

All dopamine receptor blockers are most effective for positive symptoms such as hallucinations and delusions. Atypical antipsychotic drugs are more effective than conventional agents for treating negative symptoms. Although blockade of D2 receptors occurs within hours, antipsychotic action takes days or weeks, suggesting that changes in dopamine receptor affinity or secondary effects are involved. The atypical antipsychotic agents, with the exception of clozapine, are safe for the large majority of patients with epilepsy and uncommonly increase seizure frequency or severity. When weighed against the morbidity and mortality (e.g., suicide) associated with chronic psychosis, use of antipsychotic agents is warranted. For acute and agitated psychosis (e.g., postictal psychosis), the combination of a high-potency antipsychotic agent and a benzodiazepine is often effective. In the long-term management of interictal psychosis, lack of insight, denial of illness, and disorganized thought often lead to noncompliance. Psychosocial intervention is critical, as stress can exacerbate the disorder. Social skills training, vocational training, and independent living skills foster a positive outcome.

Make sure you see a neuropsychiatrist or someone highly trained in Epilepsy and Mood disorders, not just a regular psychiatrist who will try to sell you just any drug. Plus, beware that some of the newer anti-psychotic meds can cause Type 1 diabetes. I've suffered with terrible mood swings + TC seizures so my neuropsychiatrist finally put me on Zyprexa (Olanzapine). I had to be taken off because I ended up with Diabetes. Now I have to take insulin shots every day. Along with checking my glucose levels and taking my seizure meds plus a bunch of other junk.

Good Luck!
 
it's just the two weeks afterwards he never apologises for his behaviour intact sometimes I don't think he can remember what he has said and done.

Have you directly asked him if he remembers what happened during those times?

Make sure the specialist listens to you and if they don't, get a second opinion by an epileptologist.

Good luck and best wishes. :)
 
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That must be heart breaking for the whole family.
I'm on Keppra and I still get moody, when I was first put on it I used to take it to a 6' kick bag and do a workout.
Rarely turning on people, because I knew if I did I wouldn't be able to properly control myself.
I've read about Kepra rage, so I take Vit b6 &12 tablets and when I feel moody I go for a walk, mine only lasts for 2/4 hours it doesn't feel great either.
It must be hell for you and the kids to experience this over a extended period length of time.
Heed the advice offered here by others and contact the right people. Whom should be able to control this.
Don't wait till something worse happens please.
Your not abandoning him, but helping his condition and in time I hope you will feel safe around him.
 
Things have got bad again his moods are up and down and now he says he's not going to the specialist and he is going to stop all meds. How do I get out of this psychological mess. Hopefully he will feel better 2mrw poor kids having to witness all this as well. I am going to try and keep calm until his spot which hopefully he will go to in a few weeks. This seems to be my life now and I don't like it
 
Ideally he WILL see the neurologist, and he'll wait until then to mess with his meds. But if he's dead set on stopping them, do your best to convince him not to do it cold turkey -- that can trigger withdrawal seizures.

In the meantime, you might try to talk to the neurologist yourself about how to handle this if he refuses to go. At some point it may be worth calling the police and/or going to the ER.
 
Agree,Agree,Agree with all of the advice from these lovely people. First you need find a safe haven for you and your children SAFETY FIRST. Then contact your health professionals who are dealing with your husband's condition. Do not put up with it, my friend. You are not doing your family OR your partner any favours by putting up with it. Think not only of the risk to you and your children but also how bad he would feel if he really hurt you. He seriously needs help but so do you. This man is still the same man you married but whatever his reality is taking over and doing serious damage to your relationship. Please do both of you a favour and your children and get help now. It can get better if you do something now. Take care my friend and good luck x
 
His doctor needs to wean him off the Keppra. This is well known for causing rages.

My heart just goes out to you AND your husband. Our son began to manifest postictal psychosis (fury following seizures which can last for a week or more) which involved violence about 6 months ago. Here's an article on this disorder:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2265810/

Our little Jonathan was extremely aggressive to us and others (slapping, scratching, pinching). Sometimes he would leap on me in the middle of the night and attack. He would also self-harm. One time after a seizure, he jumped up and ran full-speed into a closed door -- had an enormous lump on his forehead. He was putting his fingers into the fan and banging his head on the wall. It was a horrible, horrible nightmare.

His behavior was worse when he was on Diazepam and Keppra. Now, he only weighed about 45 pounds at the time, and it was horrible enough. I just shudder thinking about a grown man doing the things our Jonathan was doing -- it must be really, really scary.

As Nakamova said, your husband needs better seizure control.

Our Jonathan was weaned off the Diazepam and Keppra, and finally got seizure control 2 months ago (he's still on Zonegran and the Ketogenic diet). Since then, the violent behavior has decreased by about 90% and he's become much more affectionate.

I am praying for you and your husband and kids that he can get the right treatment and your family can have peace and safety.
 
OH...and a WARNING about Keppra wean. He needs to get off of it, especially if it's not helping anything, but it needs to be done SLOWLY.

Otherwise, he will not ONLY have withdrawal seizures, but you will see even MORE rage. This is what happened during Jon's Keppra wean in January. His behavior actually got worse for about a week after each taper, and then would settle down. We slowed down the wean, and that really helped.

This emotional instability during a Keppra wean is much discussed by parents with kids on the Ketogenic diet.
 
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