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Kyla

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Getting some tests done for possible simple partials for 2 or 3 years. just a quick question. What do you say to your doctor when they say you are fine when clearly you're not? And what do you do when your doctor doesn't let you tell them all of your symptoms. Whenever I go to the doc, I explain my symptoms halfway through then they start talking and I never get to say the other half -.-
 
What I learnt yesterday is write the symptoms down and bring someone with you. Be persistent and show them the list! Its so frustrating when people don't listen, I know what your going through. Its hard enough explaining the symptoms let alone having to fight to get a word in.

Get a second opinion, thats what I should do :)
 
I agree with Alice. I've started taking a typed sheet of paper with me (not too long, because docs have attention deficit disorder) with sections clearly highlighted, such as: recent symptoms, questions and/or concerns, etc. The doctors really seem to like this -- they can read super fast -- I guess that's a bi-product of med-school, and I guess they like reading through a concise list in 30 seconds rather than listen to a Mom drone on for about 3 or 4 minutes, and it seems to help them get the "big picture."
 
I agree with Alice and Karen- take a list of symptoms, questions. And make sure the dr. understands your questions and answers them so that you understand. If you don't understand, tell the doc and ask him/her to explain it further. If they interrupt you, hold up you finger and gently tell them you weren't finished speaking. A good, caring dr. will take the time to listen. If not, time to find a doc who will listen.
 
Sometimes the doctor needs reminding that they are working for you, not the other way around. Ideally you are working together as equal partners towards a shared goal. If your doctor needs nudging, you don't have to be aggressive, but it helps to be firm. Providing a list of concerns lets the doc know you're invested in making the most of his time, and taking notes lets him know that you are paying attention. Don't leave the appointment until you feel heard and are comfortable with everything the doctor has said in response.
 
thanks guys. I'll defiantly have to do this next visit!
 
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