Hey, Court,
Your mom meant well. Give her suggestion some thought. The resources are there to help us.
When I was first diagnosed and I couldn't drive, felt like *$&^, was having lots of seizures and was exhausted, I pretty much couldn't cope with everyday life. I thought about moving into an assisted living community. I wouldn't have needed a lot of the help they provided, but would have felt great about having someone to check on me once a day, balanced meals cooked for me, and a free car service to drive me wherever I needed to go. Cost is the only thing that stopped me. If I had the same thing available as you have, I would have gone for it.
Identity theft: Well, I sent a letter into the IRS. I'm not sure it said everything they told me to put in it, but I did the best that I could. Yesterday someone asked me if I had a friend or relative that could have stolen my identity, due to the type of pattern/use of my info. It really upset me, because there is someone. It's a familiy member that I really love, who has a drug and alcohol problem. But it sure would explain the plentiful downloads from iTunes charged to my charge card, the knowlege of my mother's maiden name, the street I grew up on, etc., which are part of security questions to log on to certain sites/accounts.
I hope I have everything all locked down now, with help from some friends. And if it IS my relative, since she messed with the IRS it would be a federal offense. I don't imagine federal prison would be a good experience. If they caught her and I was given a choice I would press charges, hoping that court-mandated treatment would be the sentance. Maybe that would be the "rock bottom" that would make her get help.
I'm still up every night, almost all night. But don't have internet at home, so no posting in here to keep me occupied.
Miss everybody and the chatter in here.