I just cant believe it and am so sorry for your hardship. No one deserves this and shame on their parents. Make sure you don't back down and do not drop the charges. You have alerted enough school officials, for enough time to expect this to stop. Whatever happens from here on in may teach them to solve their own problems before others have to get involved. It would seem to me that your step daughters civil rights are being violated. Her right to a safe environment, free of harassment and bullying. Since you have alerted the school, you should look for a civil rights lawyer that will work for you. There is already Federal case law for a school failing to take action. They won millions of dollars as they did not do their job and protect that kid. Even IF you don't look into a lawyer alert them at the meeting that you know there is case law on this and if she is disabled as well, that could also be a violation of the disability act. That's ALOT of trouble for any school district. You really have done everything right. Hang in there and I hope you are victorious in your pursuit. I hope you are the one to open their eyes. HUgs to your step daughter.
I found this site.. maybe it will be helpful
http://bullypolice.org/
http://www.hg.org/article.asp?id=5567
Provided by Law Office of Sara Powell - Personal Injury Attorney
Bullying in the school is one of the most harrowing experiences a child ever faces. As parents, we try to protect our children from these obstacles in life.
Bullying can present itself in different ways; physical, verbal, and indirect bullying. Approximately 350,000 school children are bullied every week, and between 16 - 20 children take their own lives due to being bullied.
The question is, when should you seek legal advice?
By law, schools are required to have an anti-bully policy written to ensure the safety of all children. If your child has been threatened, then the bully may be facing an offense of "Threatening Behavior". If your child has been sexually assaulted then the bully could be facing an offense of "Indecent Assault". If your child has been physically assaulted then the bully could face "Criminal Offense of Assault" charges.
From the "Protection from Harassment Act", there are two criminal offenses that could be applicable to the act of bullying. This entails both the offense of harassment and the offense of putting people in fear of violent acts. In this circumstance, prosecution cannot proceed unless the harassment has occurred on more then one occasion.
Another legal option if your child has been bullied is 'negligence'. Negligence may occur when the bullying resulted in severe physical and psychological damage supported by medical evidence. Any claim of negligence must be made within one year of occurrence, and any child under the age of ten cannot be prosecuted.
All forms of bullying are unacceptable and can cause unhappiness and long term effects on a child's self-esteem. If your child is showing signs of being bullied at school, they may be afraid of admitting to it for fear of retaliation by the bully, or fear of being teased by other children. Its important to assure your child that it is in his or her best interest to come forward when bullying is occurring. If you continue to suspect bulling may be occurring, but your child is still withholding, consider speaking with a school counselor or principle.
If your child has suffered an injury or mental anguish as a result of a bully at school, it is occasionally necessary to consult a lawyer to assure your child's well-being. Most lawyers will offer a free consultation and may even be able to tell you if you have legal recourse for dealing with a school bully.
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